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You have to put yourself in her position. She obviously feels threatened by you because he still has feelings for you. Personally, I'd cool it off with him for now.
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Yes.
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You'd most likely do the exact same thing if the roles were reversed, and please don't say you're not like that. After 2 years together, even though you've broken up, you're still obviously very important to him if he initiates and/or allows this constant contact, so she feels threatened. Secondly, the age and maturity level of all three parties needs to be considered. It's practically inconceivable that you and ex-bo have NEVER said anything about her in these deep conversations, and he's most likely brought it up when he speaks with her. If he's so "misinformed" that he doesn't understand that talking to you causes friction, repeating to her what's beig said REALLY causes friction. If, on the other hand, he doesn't tell her what you two talk about, that's just MORE fuel on the fire. If you want to be sure his new relationship has problems, keep talking to him.
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Yes, right now you are spoiling her relationship. How would you like it if an ex before you was doing what you're doing when you were dating him? Why did you break up in the first place? Are you hoping to get back together with him? So cut the bull and have him decide already. ANd if he decides you, expect this kind of behavior from him in the future and never end
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