ANSWERS: 3
  • It's good that she knows how much her cheating has negatively affected you. Hopefully history does not repeat itself in regard to that issue. You love her, so try your best to move forward with her and progress the relationship. You may want to try counseling. If the issue plagues you so much that you rack your brain over it daily, that's not good and you should consider leaving the relationship because that's a lot of wear and tear on your emotions. Best wishes.
  • Do you ever talk about it? It may help if she knew how much it hurts you. If you've been together four years then your relationship must be strong. Are you happy in the relationship other than this one incident that is bothering you or are you using this ancient infidelity as an excuse to end it all?
  • we don't really talk about so openly, in a way it feels like she doesn't want to know about it.. it makes me feel she has something to hide. I don't exactly know how long the cheating went on for but i do know it didn't only happen once, or if it was only one guy! Her excuse as such is we were broken up at the time.. coz of a silly imature fight, but she was still telling me she loved me and all was pretty normal couple behaviour between us.. it makes me feel like a fool sometimes. It's never really been an excuse to end it all but has created trust issues for both of us (coz she think i might be out for revenge) and kinda is making normal everyday life hard. i don't even know where we can start to try work this out?

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