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  • If you are married when she has the baby, you will be the legal father of the child. I understand you love her, but the time is now to decide if you are going to stay with her; otherwise you will be supporting this child. She has broken every vow and and proven to not be trustworthy. Think about where you think the THREE of you will be in two years, five years, etc. If you can stay and be happy somehow, I wish you the best. If you cannot, the time is now to make a change.
  • Worst case scenario in either direction: 1. You let her come home, take on the role of father and you and the child both have to cope as she goes out again and makes both of you feel unloved, used and disrespected, from here to forever, whilst you take on all the parenting. 2. You say no and she has an abortion, or the kid ends up in care or with an unsuitable step-father. Which would make you feel worse - either more guilty or more frustrated? Which you make you carry anger that can't be shifted, at yourself or at her or worse, at her child? I think she is going to use you and cheat, no matter what, but never mind her, this is about you; your self respect and your dignity and your feeling that you did the best thing in a bad situation. You need to be able to sleep. Your call.
  • Shoot the H.!

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