I use to get beaten up for no reason so if I get my revenge, does that make me a bully too?
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pouncey
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Both my sons use to get pushed around when they were first confronted by bullies. They both grew in strength and confidence enough to be able to even the score and did. I think it will give you a lot of satisfaction pouncey.
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Your gonna go down a path in life you wont enjoy.
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Who beat you up Pouncey?
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..revenge can be sweet, and the only difference is the motive behind the bullying. in the end, bullying is bullying and it hurts all
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I do not think so. If someone hurts you, you can only put up with so much. No person should have ever hurt you for no reason, if even for a reason that was stupid. I am old fashioned in the sense that I feel some things are an eye for an eye. You hurt me and I will show you worse pain. Although I say this, sometimes you have to be the better person and walk away, but it is hard!
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I would call it Self defense.
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Yep. A lot of people see "an eye for an eye", but remember, too, "Vengeance is MINE, sayeth the Lord". Wanna get the best revenge ever? Grow up knowing you are better than they are. They're jealous. That's all. (Even if they really aren't, if you look at it that way, they are less than you.) Grow up knowing you're better, BECOME better, become an employer, and when THEY need a job and come to YOU, you can either tell them to F-off, or hire them and have them clean toilets or something like that. ;-)
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no your not a bully but thanks for not allowing people to control u i was once in an abusive relationship and coldnt fight my battles from being scared and the thought of me not ever seeing my family again i ran and couldnt face my fears soo thanks again for not backing down little do u know u didnt fight them bullies for yourself but for every victimized person....have a blessed day
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an eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind. you got beaten up, you learned your lesson, now live your life with that extra bit of knowledge, and in the future don't get beaten up or don't do things to get beaten up.
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bullies are really trying to do a good thing my letting you know you are a weakling, and that he/she likes kicking sand in your face. he/she wants you to muscle up and brighten up. he/she is just asking you to stand up straighter and defend your right to be. bullys get their way with the weak because the weak are weak. . revenge at best is a threat that you think is real.
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