I'm a popular guy and I like this unpopular girl. It sounds weird but in my school popularity's a pretty big thing. I've liked her for a year now and I want to ask her out but i don't know how. She's shy and its hard to find her alone? What should I do?
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Okay. This is hilarious. The popular guy is nervous to date the unpopular girl? She's shy but she is not alone? Well, go to the one's around her. Find out how to approach her from one of them. Someone who she is around that you can relate to. Write her a note. Put yourself out there. It seems to me that you are the one with the shy issues.
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The popularity thing is pretty much the case in most schools. Even back in the dinosaur age when I was a kid. So you find her in a small group of people. Just ask if you can talk to her for a minute and see if she'd like to do whatever it is you folks do these days after school. Try not to make it this overwhelming task in your mind. She's another human being with the same doubts, fears and insecurities that you have. Best of luck to you:)
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I guess she's not that unpopular if she's never alone. Naturally it would do your popularity rating no end of harm to be seen talking to her (hence the need to talk to her alone), so why are you even considering this? Give her a break. Fixate on a popular girl who won't really care one way or another whether you ask her out or not.
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Don't worry about the popularity thing. You'll realize when you get out of high school that the popularity doesn't really matter. I think it's cool that you still like her eventhough she isn't popular. I think talking to her is person is always the best way to go. Keep trying. Just walk up to her and start talking to her. When her friends see you talking with her, they will probably walk on and continue their own conversation. Find something that the two of you have in common, maybe a teacher and start the conversation about that teacher or class. Just don't give up because she isn't popular. Good Luck!!
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Popularity is a funny thing: You think that the popular kids have something special going on, when you're in high school, and then later, you realize that they're just as neurotic as everyone else. For the most part, "being popular" means letting your social group decide what you can and can't do. Sounds like hell to me. As far as the girl: If she doesn't play the popular game, you'll have to do something pretty radical if you really want to have her. You're gonna have to be genuine with her. Why? because she's probably not that interested in dating for the sake of being in a clique. She's probably looking for substance. Which is probably her appeal.
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