Hmmmmm, & I suppose a 1 night stand is out of the question?

You coulld self-pleasure yourself....takes care of those kinds of feelings. It is not the same or as good as another person, but still feels good & better than nothing.

Have sex. Maybe have a relationship. Then, before getting married, go to confession and repent those (oh so good) evil ways. .

Grow up first.

Be careful how you react in a "moment of weakness". It is often the more religious girls that are the ones who get pregnant because when they sin, they sin all the way (not using any protection).

maturity and self control...and keep in mind, 'for every action theres a REACTION'...via one night stands...:)

Oh? Have you had it before? If not, WHY do you "want sex?" I mean, how could you WANT something you've never had? If so, then the rest of your statement doesn't seem to apply--because you've ALREADY "coped" with it!!!

there are individuals that commit themselves to not marrying and still remain chaste. it is not impossible, it just takes love for the God that created you. remaining morally clean is not out of reach for a single person. it takes appreciation of God's principles that he has given to all. take for example the biblical character by the name of joseph. the bible says that he was sexually harrassed by a very attractive, and married woman. she constantly harrassed joseph to the point of actually wanting to force herself on joseph. however, joseph's response was that he could not do such badness to his master and sin against his God. (genesis 39:7-9) this is a sterling example of a true serveant of God who refused to engage in illicit sexual relations because he knew that doing so would have highly offended his God, and he would have ruined his relationship with him. you too can show such fortitude if you stick to your morals. the day you do marry, and if you remained morally clean will be one of the greatest day of your life. do not let the world influence you to thinking there is somethihg wrong with you because you choose to wait to have sex until your wedding day. self-gratification also is not the answer. learn to rely on Jehovah God's strength and not your own. (proverbs 3:5,6)you are not alone in this struggle for doing what is right. however, you do need to learn to know how to exercise self-control. for more information go to www.watchtower.org

That's why Catholics invented confession.

just have sex man u catholic n dats koo but seriously u aint tryna die a virgin.

Sorry I am no help. I want sex myself, but I can't have it because I AM married. I guess I would say pleasure yourself. And you can use it as training so when you do have sex you will know what works for you and how to try and make it work better for your future partner.

Well if you STILL dont want to have sex, you can find things to fill the time where you want sex. Have self control, and get a hobby. When you get horny, pick that hobby up and do it. You can also spend your time in prayer, asking God for mercy for your pious choices.

Masturbation.

Find out what other people whom you respect and admire that are in this same situation do. You are not the only female that is waiting until their wedding night.

There is nothing in the Bible prohibiting premarital sex...Only the church has said it is bad so they can require people to make donations to the church to keep the treasury full. Read the following information about premarital sex and if this does not convince you then email me from AB profile and I will send you more information. http://www.libchrist.com/bible/premaritalsex.html

The bible says you shouldn't lay down beneath every shady tree, but you can lay down beneath some of them, or find some dead tress to lie under.

Withhold yourself from temptation. Don't give in to your fleshly pleasures. -Mark 14:38 "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak." The flesh is evil and always wants to do things that don't glorify God. Pray for God to help you in temptation. He never forsakes His children. -Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral."

Join the priesthood. All your needs will be satisfied.  

Several options in the short-term: 1) spank it 2) put on the "beer goggles" at a local bar and lower your standards 3) mix sex and finances

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A few options. 1. Nuns. They'll be frustrated too - and are hardly going to go around telling anyone so your secret will be safe. 2. Married women. Same reasons as the nuns. 3. Buy some from real professionals. Go upper class, as discretion is their watchword, and you get what you pay for...

Premarital sex is not wrong. there is no way I'd marry someone before I knew what sex was like with them. If you love someone, how could it be wrong?

You pray for strength and patience. The way I see it, trying to cope with it yourself is like saying that God can't help you. I'll be praying for you :-) +5

lolol you want sex, then have sex. Why would God care ? you would have been having sex if you were of another religion that doesn't prohibit, or is contemptuous about sex before marriage.

Catholic priests have sex, both straight and homosexual, characters in the bible had sex without marriage, and the words adultery and fornication were not even in the bible for the first five hundred years, so get on with it and then go to confession if you must. If god did not intend for you to have sex then you would not have the natural urges to do so.

Masturbation works for many people.

I posted an answer to this before but I was WRONG. You don't need to "cope." People don't need sexual release, that is one of the modern world's many disgusting lies. These same people will sadly never inherit the kingdom of God and are trying to get you to have the same fate. You have to invite the Holy Spirit into you. That is the ONLY way. Jesus can set you free from sin if you allow him to. Trust me. You won't even have these abominable urges anymore. And don't masturbate and definitely don't look at porn. Pray and call on Jesus. You can do it I believe in you.

You could always change your outlook and just have sex instead.

Masturbate. And it's NOT a sin. http://www.sexinchrist.com/masturbation.html