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  • SPYING on your wife is WORSE than what you believe she MAY be doing. I knew of a guy who acted like you, because his wife was "sneaking around" behind his back, or so he thought. Imagine how embarrassed he was, when he found out that all she was trying to do, was organize a SURPRISE BIRTHDAY PARTY for him. +5
  • beleive ur partner as u wish he or she will do the same to u..
  • big deal, so she deleted some text messages. how would you know they were deleted anyway? do you go through her phone often? no there is not. i know of a way, but i refuse to tell you because i don't condone spying on your partner who you're supposed to TRUST.
  • If you're at that point, your relationship is already in trouble so there's no need to lower yourself to that level.
  • Just ask her.
  • The relationship between husband and wife is upon trust, if you have no trust then you don't have the right to spy upon her.
  • why are you even married?
  • Depending on the state of your union with your wife you should get some counselling. This is considering that there are no other outright signs that your wife is cheating on you ie. does she flirt heavily with other men at parties, or outings. Does she come home later without having a good reason, say with her lipstick smeared etc.? Does she insist that she go out of town on her own or for vacations or out with the girls and stays over at her girlfriends house, etc.? Basically what I'm saying is that if you are a jealous person that alone will ruin a relationship. If you are and your wife is straight forward with you then get help. You will feel better and your wife will too because you will no longer be on her all the time. If there is real evidence that she is cheating and not imaginary, then ask her directly. Hope this helps.
  • How about taking a moment & asking the question instead of being all sneaky!
  • What you're really asking is 'How can I spy on my wife and invade her privacy?'. Have you tried just talking to her?
  • Get your suspicion out by talking to her and be level with her.Why do you make yourself suffer so much?This kind of behavior will bring your marriage to ruin so be good to her and talk it out.Hope you will be able to do that.+
  • You need to clear the air as suspicion is corrosive and the energy between you won't flow properly as long as you're thinking like this. She might be cheating, I've seen this sort of thing before and it ended in divorce. But if she is, then you will soon find out anyway. If not, maybe she thought the messages too trivial to keep? Does she keep all her messages for a long time? Tell her that you were feeling a bit insecure and on an impulse looked through her phone. Apologize for this and ask her to understand how you were feeling - and why. There must be a reason you felt like that. Listen to what she says and take it from there. Good luck.
  • i know what i would do if you were my husband, hands you divorce papers and says i want a man that talks to me not spies on me ! bye
  • I want to know how you can tell when a message is deleted when its deleted?... no Mobile/cell phone I have ever owned keeps any record of how many messages have been deleted so this is a new one on me. As for spying or tapping her phone I am afraid if I was your wife and found this out I would do 3 things #1 stick the phone so far up your arse you would need a group of cavers to find it, #2 get you arrested for wire tapping, #3 divorce and kick your arse to the curb
  • Any why do you need to invade her privacy?
  • Are you for real? Why were you looking in her phone in the first place. If you are hoping for a divorce, carry on with your crazy ways
  • Who are you – Dick Chaney?
  • man if she doesnt go through withdarls when you quit having sex with her shes cheating, if you cut her off and she goes nuts...rejoice, then explain yourself cause shed have just blown a gasket in your face and you started up an endzone dance, but hey its more fun than paranoya

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