I beleive that there is more than one person out there who could be suitable for any one. But you know when you have found someone who you can love when you click on a first meeting and this just gets better as you go along: eg I wanted to meet a Christian man (I am an evangelical christian), preferably someone interested in or from a European background, as I was studying Italian and I spoke German. Then one day, as I was selling Christian literature outside the university library, a tall dark and handsome student came up to the table. I began to talk to him, found out he was a Christian, and of Italian/German background...as I had just returned from Europe, we had a lot to talk about...we kept our eyes on each other at Bible studies around uni for a few years (as I was dating someone else) and then, just after I had broken up with my boyfriend, my future husband walked into classes at the teachers' college I was just starting at...we just clicked back into where we had been those two years ago...started going out, and married the next year...27 years this year. So, you have to know what your minimum requirments are in a partner...when someone with those minimum requirements walks into your life, then you know you have to find out more...

Match.com?

I think it's when you love someone enough to be with her/him no matter what. You would rather die than live without her/him. She/he becomes more important than the air you breath. It's when you feel you are compatible on so many levels you believe that she/he was custom made for you. As far as finding her/him, I suppose you will meet her/him when you are ready to be the person that she/he needs you to be.

not got a blooming clue 2 serious relationships 3 kids no soule mate if you find out doo tell lol

Thank you, I understand.. But what if I have strong feelings for this woman but she does not feel the same way for me? It's becoming difficult for me to work with her since she is a co-worker of mine and we see each other everyday.. I can't think straight and sleep because of her. I feel like I overthink things but it's how I feel from the bottom of my heart and gut.. What am I to do? Challenger I know how you feel :( I feel the same way about this guy that I worked with. I know he is my soulmate but I'm not sure if he thinks that about me.. I no longer see him anymore because I changed jobs I never got a chance to tell him how I feel :( I I know he is my soulmate I hope one day he will come and find me. I am tooo shy and insecure about myself to let him know please dont be like me.. Hopefully fate will bring us togoether<3

I really don't know how to answer that! I have been looking for quite a while now. I have not found my soulmate. I have no idea how to find him. I guess I will leave that up to fate.

You will find each other... It will happen when it's meant to

I believe I've found mine, really, because I'd never met him before, but the first time I ever saw him, and he saw me at the same time, it was like we could feel a connection. I'm really shy, and I've yet to talk to him (and yeah, I know that he and I are young, but you don't have to wait til you're 70 to find the one), but I feel more connected to him than anyone. Like even though we've never met, its' like I've known him forever. And even when i'm not looking for him, i find him. It's like we're pulled to each other magnetically. And I honestly, truly don't think I'd be able to live without him. I also haven't been interested in anyone but him, and even though theres a lot of things wrong with him, I still like him, and want to be with him. I know he can feel this connection too because of the way he looks at me, but I just have to talk to him and I'll know for sure for sure. I hope that helped.

When you find your soulmate you'll just know, you'll never have to ask, Is this person right for me? Because you'll know in your heart that you two are soul mates. I found my soul mate when I wasn't even looking, we just kinda met one day and have been together ever since.

There are many soulmates for you. You will know them by the good chemistry you have with them. Meet many of them and pick the one you like best. Once you take your pick, he/she will stand out more than the rest.

I DID find mine, but it was after I had given up on ever marrying in this lifetime. And wouldn't you know it - he was from another country! I was in the wrong part of the world. See, to my way of thinking, most of us are soul mates to each other. Everyone who pisses you off, and who makes you happy, even the guy who gives you directions, is a soul mate. THe term has been romanticised to death. It isn't just ONE person who comes along and changes your life. Many people you meet have changed your life, right? And it isn't THE romance of your lifetime, the one that lasts until you die. If that were true, no one would remarry after their spouse dies. The more you know yourself, what you want, and what you don't want in a mate, the closer it pushes you towards a special person. the more you do the job right, and don't take shortcuts, the more fulfilling the romantic relationship naturally becomes. A person does not "complete you" (thanks, Hollywood, for that drivel). You are supposed to already be a complete person before you settle down. We are supposed to be a ASSET to each other, not glob on for dear life.

Stop looking. That's how I found mine.

I did. I'm lucky. :)

No I don't :)

I do, I met my soulmate in 9th grade while he was in 10th. We met in gym class by staring at each other and my friend also his exchanged our numbers..Two weeks later we were together. I cheated on my home coming night with his best friend. We broke up for about a week. We got back together and he left for military school a few months later, we write letters for a time, communicated on the computer and then were able to talk on the phone. We are now invincible. We went through alot and now five years later i can proudly say as I go to college, we will be together forever. True Soulmates. To answer your question the hard times we went through is how i realized he is my soulmate.

I have a soul-mate... When I stopped looking for "him"...Is when He found me.

i do beleive in soulmates spoulmates would be your prince charming in your fairytales they might not like you the way you like him but don't worry he'll realize it soon,.. and when you've found him don,t let him go,...

You don't find a soul mate ... it just happens without you knowing ... Alone now, but you may be heading for each other every moment until you meet ... soul mates become from fate. Peace

Well...a friend of mine suggested I write all the points I would want in a mate on a peice of PINK paper...then put it in the freezer...and it will happen. But be careful what you ask for...

You'll just know. Then pray that they feel the same way or your in for a lot of heart ache.

Try numerology on your/hers date of birth and names. If numbers mach you are on the hourse,OI!

i never did ,!!!

I know the ropes only in coffee-mate matters!

It is hard to answer this question because it's not so much a thing that happens as it is a feeling. Me and my Fiance (we are getting married this November) have alot in common but we also have our points that we strongly dissagree on. We went through a rough patch at the start when I moved in with her because I could not find a job (I was a student at the time) and we got into a bit of debt, I found one and we are getting out of that debt now but everything just seemed to fall into place when we most needed it. I agree that if anything is worth doing it is hard and must be worked at but with us everything just seems so easy. We have been together for coming on 2 years and we have only ever had 2 arguments. Seriously how good is that? =P

Yes i know. Because I always take care to buy both shoes when getting a new pair.