How do you fight yourself when your first reaction to making eye contact with a pretty girl is to look away and walk away? I wish I could just smile and maybe even say HI or something lol, but I get scared.
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Force yourself to look and smile back. Try making it just friendly. Talk to girls, not necessarily making advances, just as normal people. You can get comfortable with them that way, and, if you want, move on to other things. Don't be afraid of them, try to be friendly. ;)
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Even if you cant hold a gaze I think looking at her then looking away then looking back is just fine. It shows that your alittle shy but shes caught your attention.
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Don't be scared.
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What I do is just focus all my attention on making a nice smile. When she sees your smile then she might notice you back.
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We all get scared, brother(or sister). Just Go Balls out(Figuratively) And throw yourself out there. What do you stand to loose?
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Take a deep breath and think "What do I have to lose?" If you mess it up (which I'm sure you won't) you don't ever have to see her again. Try not to panic. When I see a cute boy, my natural reaction is to actually RUN AWAY. Run. Away. I just take a deep breath and pretend I'm talking to my best friend. I actually ran away from a guy I had a massive crush on once and he was like ".....what happened?" Now I can talk to him like a good friend. I still get nervous, but that's life. Thankfully I now wear makeup & have changed my hair colour, so I don't think he's actually distinguished that the girl that legged it and me are the same person. Ehehehe........
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Realize that this 'pretty girl' is a human being just like you and not some goddess you have to worship. That might help take fear away.
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quit being such a @^#%$* pu**y and do it. you have a fear of rejection, if you are rejected a few times you will get over it and you won't get laid if you don't try. Remember sometimes meeting women requires that you throw a bunch of crap at the wall and eventualy some will stick (the more you try the better your chances)
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Well stop being scared & smile & go up to & say Hi & start a conversation. You many be surprised! She may be WAITING for you to go up to her & talk to her.
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