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Because they were reared to be violent and abusive by their own parents, and they know no other way to manage or control their own kids. Their attitude is, "If whippings and beatings were good enough for ME, then it is good enough for my own kids." I once asked a buddy, "Did your old man ever beat the crap out of you?" He replied, "Not really, but when I was 7, he beat the LOVE out of me, and I've had no 'warm' feelings for him, ever since. I look forward to his death, and pray for it, every day." THAT is what can happen, when you use violence on your kids. +5
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Lack of contraception. I fucking hate kids so I have the world's best contraception but, if you have them, you should not beat them. If you can't give a kid love .... don't have one!!
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That's the only method They can think of to solve problems.
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People hit because they cannot articulate a reasonable argument. As a previous answer said, they were raised in a society that advocates many different forms of violence against animals and children. Violence is used to solve problems. Good question. +5
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because they don't know any better and they are either unable or unwilling to learn to do better.
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Because those kids just won't listen! - [not serious here; just a small joke] - ;-)
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so they wont be spoiled. alot of people overdue it with the hitting. gotta find somewhere in between. if your kid mouths off than beat him. ide do it.
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Frustration, usually.
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My dad hits me because I'm gay. I'm not joking usually people when I tell them on ab they don't beleive me but it's true, I get horrible night terrors often, some get as bad as waking scratching my neck because I think he's chocking me. I usually try to be out of the house as long as possible by working or hanging out with my bf jamie. My fathers abuse is causing so many problems for me I'm way more irritable, I have to hide my bruises with excuses, and it puts stress on my relationship with Jamie but I have no worries were happy with each other. All I'm saying is my father is dead to me by now.
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I beleive that people abuse their children for the same reason that some abuse their partners. Their abusive habits more than likely stem from childhood. They either experienced abuse themselves, lived in a very unstable environment, had no substanial role model etc. Ultimatly what it boils down to is a LACK of empathy. If a person lacks too much empathy they are borderline socio-paths. Which is very dangerous. Though they may love thier childern/S.O. they have the capability to harm them and possibly even kill them. Normally most regret their actions nevertheless they are unable to change their habits.
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