First of all everybody feels that way sometimes. So you are not alone there. You never know what tomorrow will bring. If you truly are a nice guy you have nothing to worry about provided you don't keep yourself locked up in your house away from the rest of society. You have to go out and give yourself the opportunity to meet people. Just live your life and try to do things that make you happy. She will come along when she is supposed to. :)

Just keep the good feelings going in yourself, someone will love you truely deeply and madly and you will love her like no-one you have ever meet. Now is a moment that is leading you somewhere greater, it happened to me, will happen for you too, keep the faith the worls can be a great place :-)

Been there, done that. I've always been a "nice guy", and never had a girlfriend until I graduated college. I had dates, but nothing that panned out. Then again, I was not near as self-confident as I am now, or was when I met my first girlfriend. Story: In my junior year at college, I still didn't have a lot of self-confidence (especially with girls), though I had plenty of female friends... Nothing but friendship. And they all seemed to like me, but "not in that way." I also didn't particularly like myself - Extremely tall, overweight, etc. I got into a play in the Experimental Theater, where I had to play a very strong minor character, charging out on stage, giving a long, loud speech, threatening people, etc. I figured out how to "work myself up" for that, and was told I even "scared" family friends in the back rows. That helped bolster my self-esteem, some. Then, after the show was over, I was walking down the hallway behind this guy who was teasing a couple of girls from the show I liked. I can't remember what "started" it, but at some point, I did a move that I'd done in the show, picking him up by his jacket lapels, and told him to "leave them alone". I gave him a VERY small toss (easily landed, if he'd wanted to), and he took a full stage-fall, slamming through a stairwell door (bottom of the stairs), and throwing himself against the wall, landing in a crumpled heap, hands up, begging me not to hurt him! (I NEVER expected that.) One of the girls said something like, "Wow. I never knew you could be that assertive. I like it." I never forgot that. As I rolled through my senior year, my confidence in myself grew, and apparently, became noticeable. After I graduated, I still hung out with some of the friends I made. We played DND (Dungeons & Dragons) - the original. We had a "rush week" for some of the groups, and the guy who ran DND had a booth. I hung out with them, and watched as all types of people, guys and girls signed up. One of those girls later said she signed up to meet me. She became my girlfriend, and we lasted over two years. The whole point of the story is to show you that you may need to work on your self-esteem, your confidence, your self-worth, and believing in yourself. That doesn't mean become belligerent or aggressive, but assertiveness is not either of those. Confidence and belief in yourself shows through, and people "take" to confident, assertive people. Think about what the "bad boys" have that you don't. Usually it's that confidence. THEY, though, are tend to be belligerent and aggressive, not "just" assertive. Believe me... "Nice guys CAN finish first." And don't EVER think you won't find someone else. They keep saying there are "plenty of fish in the sea". They are out there. You just have to find ways to meet them. You WILL find someone. It can take a short time, or a long time to do so. So, don't become a hermit and hang around home and work only all the time. There's little to no chance to meet someone that way. Attend church (if you believe). Find something you like to do. Join some groups related to and/or doing things you like or are good at. NETWORK. Just as in finding a job, MANY people tend to find their sole-mates simply being around other people, and are sometimes introduced by mutual friends. Get out there. SHE'S out there. You'll find her (or she you), if you give yourself the chance. Good luck! ;-)