I think those who seek to undermine/sabotage/disparage/destroy others do those very things to themelves. It is much like a boomerang...you toss it with vengeance and it comes right back at you with equal vengeance. What do you think?

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• I am very sorry to hear that tuvw. Is there anything I or any of us can do to help you out? When I was a kid I was kinda a little bit overweight and also painfully shy and on top of that quite a bit younger than the other kids so I imagine you can guess how the other kids treated me. If your bully is an AB member report it immediately with links as examples if you can to AB staff. If it is real life do you have a best friend or sibling or someone to whom you can go for help? Being the victim of a bully is no fun. I've been there. :(

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 20th, 2009

• I have reported it and they are keeping a close eye on the situation. The CLs I talked to told me this person has a reputation for this type of behavior. Apparently if you disagree with this person he/she launches an attack in the questions, answers and comments. He/she uses ambiguous words that have enough plausible deniability that there is really nothing the staff can do. I was told that I was within my rights to defend myself as I have been doing. I don't need any help from anyone. I don't like to involve others in drama.

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  by tuvw on August 20th, 2009

• I understand totally. On the other, sometimes it is a kindness to let people know what you're going through, if only obliquely, just so they might be more cautious, more aware for themselves. It is a good thing that you've reported it.

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 20th, 2009

• Apparently, I was the last person to know. Everyone I have spoken to knows this person and his/her reputation. Sharp tongued, intolerant and rabid were the words they used. It must suck to have to wonder if a person is just agreeing with you to avoid a tongue-lashing.

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  by tuvw on August 20th, 2009

• Keeping silent helps no one. But it does help to know to whom to go and our AB staff is the very best, as are our CL's . You're in good hands.

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 20th, 2009

• Keeping silent is what is called for and as soon as this person shuts up and stops badgering me with the never ending stream of loaded questions I'll zip my lip. Until then he/she can count on my come backs. I agree the CLs are wonderful and that's why it's so appalling to see them put in this position. Having to watch as two users knowingly violate the spirit of the terms of use.

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  by tuvw on August 20th, 2009

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• Thank you for your answer Axe and Happy Friday! :)

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 21st, 2009

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• This revenge thing...I don't really understand it, tell you the truth. Thank you for your answer Desiderata and Happy Friday to you! So you are going to Morocco? Is that where the infamous Casbah is?

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 21st, 2009

• Yup I leave this sunday for it! :D

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  by Desiderata on August 21st, 2009

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• It does my friend. Whatever you keep alive inside you of a negative nature will ultimately destroy you I believe. It harms you far more than your target/cause. Thank you for your answer CatLover! :) ((hugs))

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 21st, 2009

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• True enough. On the other hand perhaps a friend/relative will take up where you left off and return the favor on behalf of the person you destroyed. Or perhaps, if you believe in such a thing as Universal Justice, a time and a place will come and you will be at the right place at the wrong time and that little old boomerang will find you and take you down and out. Thank you for your answer and Happy Thursday to you! :)

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 20th, 2009

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• Hi MM. Thank you for the "atta girl"! :) ((hugs))

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  by RosieGHM Jetpacker on August 20th, 2009

• =DDD

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  by Mountain Momma on August 20th, 2009

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