I am the virgin above and I am very sexy. I love sex just by myself right now though because I dont try to fool myself like alot of women that I can detach my sexuality from my emotions. Maybe there are older women or very experienced women who are living it up for a moment but I notice most women getting hurt. I have a coworker for example who makes no sense. She got involved with a man who is married with kids, has a girlfriend on the side and then her. Then you see her in a bad mood saying all men are jerks.Its beyond obvious she should not have gotten emotinally involved with this man but like many women, she could not help herself. I think most men in her shoes who would get involved with a cheater like this guy would just see her as an easy lay from the start and move on. I try not to be so judgemental and have compassion for my coworker but it just makes no sense. What do you think makes a women a good lover? What do you think more than compensates for a lack of experience? Enthusiasm,curiosity. I know reading plenty about sex like finding the Gspot, communicating with your partner in a non threatning way to get the pleasure you want and different positions is not the same as actual experience. I hear so many guys saying they would not want a virgin because they like a woman who knows what she is doing. I can understand if she is a prude virgin but what if she is interested in sex like me and fairly self educated?