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WoW......I guess you are still attached to him, i think as time passes you will be able to move on and forget all about him. X
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because you still look back. you wonder what might have been. do you SO a favor and straighten this out, it is an insult to him. if necessary find a shrink.
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My opinion is unfinished business. You look back and realize now that the past really does effect the present or future unless you take care of unfinished business. Not knowing the extent of the abuse he bestowed upon you I am thinking its unfinished bottled up feelings inside of you. Whatever you do about your dreams Darlin do so with caution especially when it comes to your ex! . Take care I wish you well
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Since you are in a new realationship, you may be wondering, is he anything like my ex? or you may still be hurt. try whatever you can to get over him. see a counsler. talk to a friend. tell your current lover how you feel. but i promise that you will and can get over him.
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Dreams are a funny one. To be honest I would seriously listen to anyone unless they have studied them as a profession. Im dating a girl and Im supper happy with her but still sometimes have the craziest dreams involving her. The smallest thing in the day can trigger of your subconscious. He may be on your mind a lot because abused you, abuse is a horrible thing and not something you can get over quickly. Because your really happy with this guy you may be scared the same thing might happen with the abuse and that triggers off a dream about your ex which could invole good time and bad with him. If it really bothers you perhaps ask a professional. All the best
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Did you get help from that last relationship? Read up on codependent behavior, and then you can learn from the last as to not make the same mistakes..we have a tendency to attract certain people into our lives, its not an accident...I would go slow and maybe be friends till you heal from the last relationship and get healthy, then when you are in a place that is good, your attract healthier people.
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Your welcome. :)
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Your brain is attempting to integrate your experiences with your ex into your world view. Don't be alarmed at it.
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Maybe you have the fear of lightning striking twice! It's very normal. This will pass. When you have been happy with your new relationship it will pass. I wish you happiness! BE HAPPY!
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