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I think you should break up. If you feel like this now imagine how you would feel in another few years if you stuck with him. Never settle for something you dont really want-life is too short. Be thoughtful though in the way in which you break up with him as he sounds like a nice guy.
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If he does not meet your needs, and gets on your nerves, let it go and date some more till you find the right guy for you.
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Never settle. Tell him you just feel like the two of you are traveling on different paths, and it wouldn't be fair to either one of you if you kept going together. You don't want to hold him back, and you don't want to harbor ill feelings of resentment toward him either now or in the future for holding you back. You think he's a great person and he's done nothing wrong, you just don't feel it. Thank him for the time you did share together, and let it go.
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been there... but it was 5 years... I thought this was it for me... and I was scared I thought that there wasn't any other way no one would love me like he does. then i met a guy in one of my classes we had so much in common, our families were similar, we were becoming great friends. and I could see myself with him. he was the man of my dreams. although it was very difficult to break up with him and tell our families that we weren't right for each other it was worth it. I am so much happier. I really couldn't see myself with my previous bf and it did seem like I was settling even though I wasn't happy. it was tough but for your happiness it will be worth it.
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before doing something stupid stop what do you want and need in a man, write it down now the way I see it this guy wants to go out of his way for you that is a huge plus loyality says so much but take a test on a peice of paper write dodn his strengths on one side and weekness on the other and compare them to what you need in a man long term not just what looks good now because there is always something that looks good and is not what you thought then understand it will not always be beer and roses life takes work but enjoy it
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but, women... what are the changes of you actually finding "that perfect guy" at the perfect time of your life?? get realistic now...
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You do not have the right chemistry between you and your current boyfriend. you are have doubts. When in doubt, don't! In this case, don't stay with him. Your heart is not dedicated to him.
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I've learned the hard way never to settle. If you're not happy you shouldn't waste anymore time with someone you feel isn't right for you.
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Seven months is not that long. If you have your doubts you should explore those doubts further. How does the other guy compare? I'm sure he's not perfect either. Nobody is.
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