Go after her man show how much u care.

She says she "doesn't want a boyfriend." Which part of that do you not understand?

Umm I would give her space and let her come back to u

I think that you should really try to get her back. I grew up with three sisters and they do sometimes say things that they don't really mean. Next week she may change her mind and you want to be there when she does. I Hope things work our for you man. By the way, I'm a black male age 31.5; just so you know who's talking here.

Voice of experience: Just let it go and go on with your life. If it's supposed to be it will happen.

just give her space if she want to come back she will never force any1 to do something which the person is not willing to do............if u go after her she might rather hate you.........for not leaving her alone which she demanded.

That happens. If you can, just be friends with her. You will be closer, simply because you WERE boyfriend/girlfriend, and it may be a little awkward and difficult for you, since you apparently love her so much, but by being friends, you are still around. Don't push her to come back to you. The more you push, the farther away she goes. Just be there. If you were her first boyfriend, many times, girls, just as many guys, want to "play the field" at least a little before settling down into a relationship. Sometimes they realize they jumped into one so soon, and break up. That doesn't mean it's forever, but it MIGHT be. If they find someone they like better, or YOU find someone else you like better, it could be over. If you are her friend, you are there when things don't work out with any other guy. (That's the hard part... LETTING her get to know other guys. But, if you love her, it doesn't matter.) Meanwhile, you check out other girls. At this stage, you will be comparing, and so will she. If she feels you're more "perfect" than someone else, he might not have a chance. Same with you. I've been close to that situation with my second girlfriend. She wouldn't even allow me to give our relationship that name. She started seeing a guy we both knew, and me, knowing that guy, just stayed in the background. She and I talked at least once-a-week on the phone. (I was a debit-route salesman, so it was much easier for me, as I was out of town so much.) He finally screwed up, and she said, "If you still want me, come and get me." I was over there in about 10 minutes, brought her home, and we were together for the next 15 years. "If you love her, let her go. If she comes back, it will be 'forever'. If not, you never really had her in the first place." Hardest thing to hear. Harder still to do, but when it works, it works. Good luck. ;-)