I'm sure there are some good men out there words o wisdom. Just gotta keep your chin up and keep lookin'! Good things come to those who wait! I'm with ya though! I know what ya mean! +5

I'd be totally willing to be with you, as long as I got laid. :P

Yes they do exist, it's just the men you encountered aren't ready for that type of relationship because like Dr. Drew says everyday on Loveline they feel inadequte with themselves and it can be a number of things like job,penis size, money anything and untill they can feel better about themselves they will want to be with your forever. You'll have better luck with men in the 30+ Land.

as a guy who has given up a long time ago will let u know that guys like that do exist. its a rare breed but we are out there. it can get frustrating im sure but never give up. just take a break if u must.

I apologize on behalf of the male population for their inability to see beyond the superficial and not appreciating all that women have to offer. I am celebrating three years of marriage, today, and my wife is my best friend, confidante, lover and better half. I think that the main problem is our society has decayed to a level that is not much beyond barbarism. Men watch gladitorial games, played out in stadiums, in a league called the NFL. They drink beer and watch womanizing commercials. Gone are the days of adding machines, gentlemen, and manners. Gone are the days of unwritten rules and etiquette. All that has been replaced with Rap/Hip-hop music, a "me first" mentality and a complete lack of concern for thy neighbor. If you pic is an accurate reflection of your true beauty, then someday your prince will come.

Go to a church social; there are plenty of boring guys there. Kidding

Maybe it's the way you dress that makes you attract guys who are only out for sex. All guys want sex, but so do all women, but that doesn't mean that's all they want. Of course there are guys that want to be with someone, but you probably view those guys as "too nice", or "friend material", so unknowingly drive them away. If that's your picture, then you won't have any problem with men rejecting you, and no, that's not some pathetic attempt at hitting on you or buttering you up, I'm mentioning it because I think, just once, you should give a nice guy, a quiet guy, or a shy guy a try, forget pretty boy and bad boy for now, if you prefer them, go back to them later, but just try something different, try a geek, someone different to who you usually go for, you may be surprised to find that those guys who want to be with someone exist, but you may also find that you don't want to be with a guy like that, but you'll never know if you keep going for the same type of guy.

don't give up or give in!! stand your ground.. one day when you least expect it, he will show up! good luck sweetie..

Don't give up. We're still out there. While sex is on our minds, and women's minds too I might add, there are guys out there who just enjoy being with and caring about a woman.

Yeah..I'm one and can't find a woman who wants anything besides a good time. Oh well.. I guess I'll take that secret to the grave. :p

Men may or may not want a serious relationship that's more on the individual. However just because a man wants a serious relationship does not mean he will get into one with any woman. He may be looking and having fun until Ms. Right comes along. So in order for Mr. Right to want to be with a particular woman in a relationship that is more than just sex, she must be Ms. Right. Follow me? Think about it, a man who goes for a woman is usually going for her looks, in his mind it is for sexual gratification. However, Mr. Right, the one looking for something serious is looking for something else. Marriage material. So what does that constitute? Obviously it would not be looks alone, neither would it be predominantly looks. If looks are what got a Mr. Right, he would not be Mr. Right. Think Hugh Grant. A man cannot be held by beauty alone. Elizabeth Hurley is arguably one of the most beautiful women alive, yet that alone did not prevent Hugh from cheating. He cheated on her with some Los Angele's prostitute! So you must be Ms. Right in order to attract Mr. Right. Beauty doesn't do it. Whatever you want in a man, you must also be. And vice versa. So many women make the mistake of sleeping with a man rather soon. Whether or not there is a double standard in society it is irrelevant, it does affect how a man views a woman. Think of all the yo momma jokes. They all revolve around a slutty mother. It is never around a slutty dad. A man cannot be hurt because his dad is a slutty, only if his mother is. The more a man has sex the more manly he can be viewed. The more partners a women has, the less desirable she becomes. The preciousness in a woman is her purity. If there is on purity it is not desirable. If everyone has had or can have what I have, what value can it have? Like gold. It is precious only because it is rare. Now that women are just as promiscuous as men, notice men don't try as hard. Fair or not that is what it is.

All the good men are taken, just steal one of those men from their girlfriend or wife lol.

yeah they do! i'm one of them!!!

Mhm, believe it or not, they do exist. Even though there are so many of that kind, there are just as many of the good ones. I know mine is on the good side. <3

i am going on a first meet and greet with someone that i really feel is looking for the whole package, if i am wrong i will update you. i agree they are sure hard to find at times.

Yes there are, but you have to be up front from the start and look for only those sorts of men and get interested in ones that are looking for a serious committed relationship. If you just sleep with someone and hope for it, it's not going to happen.

wow. are you like..two?or have you been in a bomb shelter for mmm75years?

Most men are just born with the drive to have sex. But there are so men who actually want a stable relationship. And you just have to look for them. There actually might be a guy that likes you right now, and you don't even know it. And plus its mostly the really really good looking guys who just want a one night stand then move on, you'll find that the less uhh pulchritudinous men, want a woman they can grow with. So lower your standards, and don't give up! I had fun answering this . Good luck.

Don't give up. Here is the key to understanding men (and I'll take some flak for this): Most men are born as pigs. Some of us become more refined as we grow up and some less. And most men think about sex alot. I admit I'm one of them. I hope as I have matured I have learned to appreciate everything my s/o gives to me, her kindness and strength, her love of animals, her appreciation for the arts, basically her soul. There are good men out there but you may have to sort through some real duds before you find one. And don't look for them in bars or similar places. Most of the men hanging out there are looking to indulge themselves and will not care about your wants and needs. I didn't intend to get that soft when I started to write this and I can hear half the male population telling me to grow a pair. I guess I'll need to belch and scratch myself to get back in touch with my masculine side. Good luck.

I am living proof that they exist. Im a good looking guy who takes care of myself. but i cant seem to keep a relationship because i am in the army. dont give up, live life and enjoy what it gives you. (use condoms though ;)

stop looking for it, and it will find you. You might be putting off a vibe that looks for that behavior, if you're too enthusiastic. Chill out, and chances are, it will come to you , because you are ready for a commitment.Good luck!

they do exist, its just they've given up because of the way your sex treats them in the early years of life.

Yes. My boyfriend is one of those guys. Not all the good guys are taken. I actually know decent guys personally who aren't. If you lived here, I might even hook you up with one of them.

I can't speak for all men, but I only want a 24/7 TPE sex slave with no limits and no safeword...

I find your question very interesting. I am a male who became a widower after a wonderful 25 year marriage. When I tried to date again to find another partner, I found women to be superficial and only interested in the very thing that you are complaining about or they were looking for a male younger than themselves. (I notice that you are in Australia and so am I). Finally, I got onto a dating website and found a lady overseas who wanted what I wanted.

Well, to be honest, I use to want a meaningful relationship, but that was really hard when women treated me like shit, were overly fastidious, and were fickled hearted. Now, the only thing I seek from them is sex, and NOTHING more, because I just don't give a fuck anymore.

It appears that Men AND Women are out just for the sex .. and not a relationship much of the time ... NO commitment or strings ..just a "Sex Buddy" or "Friend with Benefits" arrangement.

have you ever really read the questions on this site??? it seems there are many of guys who have lost faith in females. as well of lots of guys that lost faith in men. what this tells me is nothing has changed in the dating game and you just havent met the person for you yet. but you will. just relax.

There are a lot of them out there, words. I am sort of out of the game now,...age and all that. But, I was always looking for a permanent relationship. I even found a few, at least I had thought (hoped). It did not work out that way. But, with all the musical beds games that young people seem to be playing now, I do notice that there are still a few who are looking for "that one". They have a hard time finding them, sometimes. But, they are still looking. I have two nephews who are still looking. They have both been burned before...so they are twice, even thrice cautious. And that is one of the factors (problems) now. You can only take so much emotional strain that a loss of a relationship can cause. After a while, you sort of grow calluses on your heart. Old Cupid's arrow just cannot penetrate it anymore. And that is sad. Especially when it happens to young people. Old guys like me can take it and go on, but I truly feel for those who still have a long life ahead and want to share it with someone else,..even want children, but cannot find anyone who wants to share with them. Best wishes. I hope you find "the one".

Yea, we exist. I could ask the same about women though. Seems like most of the women I have come across over the past year just want to play games.

im one of those the last of the hopeless romantics

i've been with my girl for the last 2 and a half years which is the longest i've been with anyone. it's a challenge, because i get hit on by a lot of women. but i have an awesome and hot girlfriend and i couldn't imagine life without her sometimes. if i cheated on her, i could never forgive myself. i'm 27 by the way. so yes, we do exist.

by the way if that is your actual picture i have a hard time believing that you have trouble holding on to a man.

AND YOU'RE A NURSE?? god you are totally my type too.... trust me, you'll find a man.

With the type of people coming to me for guidance I think that this issue is rampant.No serious relationships in todays day and age.To short,brief and jlt!I know it should move towards a more meaningful relationships but who's going to bell the cat?+

Honestly...yeah they're out there. Maybe some are like me and just getting out of a long relationship and not really looking to jump back into one. I recently got out of a 6 year one (3 were marriage) and although i do go out and sometimes look for company with a lady, I don't try to get too involved. unless they were to strike me as THAT GIRL. don't judge me!! ;)

It bears repeating, so I will; You're probably looking in the wrong places. If you frequent a pick-up bar? You'll have some guy sniffing around to pick you up for sex, after which you'll have to find a ride home. Everyone may laugh, but warming a pew once a week will put you in the presence of guys who want BOTH sex and a long term relationship, with the same woman no less. Those guys are the normal ones. The tomcat cruising the bars won't figure out what he's missing until he wakes up a "lonely only" 40 something who chases women half his age every might.

yes I exist and I spent 6 years married to a piece of dead weight who decided she no longer believed in marriage and dropped her commitment in a single day. now at age 30 I get to find a new wife who will hopefully not go insane like my las one did and will spend forever with me.

I'm pretty sure I still exist... :) +5

Yes they do. .it's just that hormones come first. .then you consider the loneliness after sex. Plus getting laid is less a pain in the neck than a relationship I guess. Tip: Make sure you fulfill your man's every fantasy and he might just be interested in being with you.

Yes I do, we are interested in sex but their are other things to. I wish I could have you because I would treat you like a queen. Don't give up. Love happens when you least expect it. Maybe don't try as hard just let it happen. I know easier said than done. +3

Lonely men are a dime a dozen. But there's usually a reason why they're so lonely. But I suspect you could find a very nice guy who's just a LITTLE lonely and who would want to be with you for the long term. Anyway, you're a very lovely lady. Imagine how tough it is for the other 95% of the population who aren't so gorgeous!

haha we are still out there i sometimes think it the other way around!