I need a man. All my ex bf's didn't take me out, pay for my nails, insurance or buy me diamonds. I'm a queen and deserve a real man. My friend told me this (she has no job & obese). What do you think?
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I think you didn't have sex with any of them. +5
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i think she needs a serious reality check if she thinks there's a guy in the world who'd put up with bogus crap like that from her or any woman.
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Hahahahahaha! Sorry. That was my initial response. Sounds like your friend has fallen prey to a princess fantasy. Pray tell, if a man is going to do all this for YOU, what does he get in return? Unless you treat a man like a prince, he won't treat you like a princess.
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I think you depend on a man way to much, get a job and do those things for yourself.. then men will totally want you
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I think you need to get a reality check. Who says pretty nails and diamonds is what you need? They're pointless. You need someone who truly loves you, not someone who is trying to buy your love.
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Might I suggest that you don't "need" anyone to validate your life. You do need to feel comfortable with yourself, and learn to accept yourself without judgment. If you can truly accept yourself, as you are, then you will find you do not "need" anybody. And that is when you will find a partner with whom you can have a good relationship. But your first relationship needs to be with yourself.
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Good luck on her getting anyone. Change friends too.
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She seems to be chanting positive "affirmations" in an attempt to build up her self-confidence. I heard just today that chanting affirmations doesn't help. If that's true, then here are some alternatives that might help: * You could ask her, what qualities does she have that a man might find attractive? * Suggest that she join a convent. * Get her a Gohonzon and teach her, "Nam myoho renge gyo."
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well if your idea of a "real man" is one who showers you in gifts such as nails and diamonds, what is your idea of a real woman? To me a real woman is one who isn't demanding and appreciates everything that she has. Once you start bringing in materialism into the equation, true love is displaced and it will leave you
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With an attitude like that, I wonder how she got any boyfriends to begin with.
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No job & obese = irrelevant. However, diamonds, nails, insurances etc = your friend needs to wise up to reality and go for a man with substance other than his wallet.
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Ohnotheydi'nt. Girlfriend, you needs to kick dem scrubs to da curb, fo sho.
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you should try the date a millionaire dot com dating service you sound like a great catch and you will do fine i guarantee it.
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Your friend needs to throw out the video games and star wars stuff. Pack them away for after the Pilates course, the boot camp, the new job, and the new apartment are lined up. By that time, she may even find a guy who sees more than a blob of protoplasm on the couch.
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