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  • Volunteer at a battered women's shelter and you'll see how fortunate you were to get away from him. Once reality sinks in, you're realize that you don't want him - you just liked having a man in your life. You can do bad all by yourself.
  • I wonder if he was just having problems and dealing with anger from the past. It was so lovely for the first year and after that I only knew tears. I couldn't believe what it turned into. I know I had to get out but it was somone I had loved so much and leaving hurt like hell. It's been over 8 months and I still don't feel very brave although I was always a strong person I didn't know this could become my reality, I'm afraid I'll never love again and worried how was I so stupid to let things go on the way they had, I was so scared of losing him although he treated me like crap. I don't understand myself anymore.
  • There is a book by Melody Beattie called "Codependent No More." Look for it and take a peek. See if anything hits home for you.

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