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Is this a male friend? If so, trust your man. Unless you feel that he is fooling around as well, he may just enjoy hanging out with his friend and is disregarding his playboy ways. If this is a female, I'd be a little concerned. Still, without trust in either situation, you're in a bit of trouble. Talk to your man about this and tell him your concerns. If he maintains that you have nothing to worry about and that he is completely faithful to you, let it ride. Then, find some friends who like to go out for a good time and have your own night out. Or, suggest that you go along with him!
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It's easy to assume that your partner may share the same character traits of his friend just because they're friends. Birds of a feather do flock together, but opposites do attract in friendships as well. I had a friend years ago like the one you described, but I never adopted their behavior as my own. Some friendships have only a few things in common, and everything else is either ignored, or tolerated in the other person because they've accepted them for who they are. Your trust should remain in your partner, not in the person he shares his time with. Unless your partner gives you reason to think otherwise don't worry. But, you should address this with your partner before this starts to effect your relationship.
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