Specifically what is he after, it is impossible to tell you. But, there are things that can explain that kind of behavior. He ended a relationship via email--tells you he said all the right words for 2 years, but was only in it for what he got out of it. Sadly, many relationships are built on hormones/ physical attraction/ lust. Those factors usually lead to short term relationships. When that is the type of interaction with a girl, things gets “old” or common. then that guy looses interest and finds some other gal that sparks his hormones anew. When that guy has a slow or dull period of dating or going steady (he's lonely or bored), he nostalgically thinks back on things and pops back into an EX’s life in some form. All for his own selfish reasons. That is probably what is going on. Guys and gals often view things differently: a gal will take all the guys words or the act of intercourse as a sign of love and give her heart away. Many shallow guys can say and do these things only for their own satisfaction and not give their heart. Sadly, it sounds like you are stuck and would leap back into his arms, if only he would give that signal. Many gals get needy and desperate. May I suggest that you get a new email and phone number or block his. Mentally, physically, emotionally throw him and his stuff away. It is time to re-assess your goals, values, interests and character and work on being a quality woman. There are many quality fish in the sea. They are almost never found in clubs and bars. If a gal dresses sexy or sensual, she only attracts guys based on hormones. If she allows the relationship to turn into a kissing, body touching session, she is building a relationship on excited hormones/lust. These will cool off. If she feels she can “hook” the guy and get him to commit by having sex, the gal is sadly mistaken. She is setting herself up to be used. Build your next relationship on shared values, goals and interests. These are the things that sustain a relationship over time. That new guy should be viewed as your best friend. Commitment to each other is built during this time. A peck on the cheek, hand holding and a hug is as far as you should ever let things go. This helps make sure that the guy is genuine and not in the relationship to gratify his hormones. Sexual contact should be saved for a wedding night. Seriously!!! Skip the trashy ideas you get from movies and loose friends. You’ll be so glad you did! -Mrs. H. ( happily married to my best friend)

It sounds like he feels guilty about your break up and misses you. Dont fall for it though, move on with your life. Its clearly his loss. good luck xx