You are too young for this site, as you need to be 14. Personally I don't think you should rush into sex. Your virginity is not something that you can ever get back and what you have promised this 'guy' is precious. You may think that everyone is at it, they are not. A few are, but most like yourself have lied about losing their virginity to stop others discussing it. Before you have sex, you need to grasp the basics and I would have prefered to lose my virginity to someone whom cared about me, but it didn't happen. I was older than you, and in a far better position to decide what I wanted, however, looking back it was still the wrong choice. All I'm saying is, be careful. Don't lose your virginity to someone who doesn't respect you. If you're that interested in this guy, and he is in you, then tell him you have had second thoughts and want to take it a bit slower. It doesn't stop you from experimenting with other things and getting to know each others body's but don't have sex for the sake of losing your virginity or because you're afraid you'll lose him. And yes, it can hurt, and sometimes still does when they first penetrate you. Also don't worry about your hymen, mine was broken yrs before I had sex because I used to do a lot of exercise and when I lost my virginity I didn't bleed.

You are far to young to have sex wait until you find someone you truly love or even better wait until you are married. I think it is a disgrace that you think your ready to have sex and being a virgin is somthing you shouldn't be embarrased of because it means you have respect for yourself. think about it please.