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It's NOT his fault that she does that. He can't control it but what is important is how he handles it. he should be very clear with her that he's not interested. From the little you've said in your question you shouldn't be mad at him, just her.
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Stop getting mad, he is right it is not his fault. He is with you now, trust him :-)
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loosen the reigns a little there honey. stop being so dramatic and drama-laden. Thats only going to lead to his resentment of you.
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While it's not his fault, he can tell her that he's not interested and let her know he has you now. My problem is, does he encourage her? I mean, "I will call you tonight" does he then answer the phone and talk to her, flirt, spend long conversations with her? If that's the case, you have some decision making to do. You have to ask him why he encourages her and if he sees a possibility of them getting back together. If it were me, I'd be upset to and want him to tell her, "I have a girlfriend now so there's no chance that we will get back together." If he's not doing that, then he is being disrespectful to you and that should send up red flags.
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I would be upset too, its frustrating because you feel the need you must compete with this girl, because they have a history. But it isnt his fault for her sending him messages, but if he responds to those messages with "miss you too, or "see you tomight" then i would worry. until then just try to relax and trust him. If you dont have trust it will never work out. Trust me I know. Just hang in there.
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If he doesn't respond to her messages, then of course its not his fault. Look, you are trying to control him here and not allow himself to have friends. It doesn't seem like he is going after her, and sometimes ex's can still be part of someones life.
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Yes its no his fault, but I'd be mad as well. Not so much at him tho but at her. If it was upsetting me I would tell them not to talk to the girl no more, or get him to tell her to stop talking to him like that. And if he cares about you more then his ex then he will.
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give him a little credit and believe him when he says it's not his fault and trust him BUT keep ur eyes open and notice the little things he does involving her without letting him know and if he sees that u dont care anymore he'll put a stop to her on his own or if u sespect something between them if ur not so guarded all the time he'll slip iventually and u'll catch him off guard good luck either way
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Yes it is his fault. All he has to say is; “Sorry to hear you’ve broken up, but I’m with someone else”. After a few times he’s obviously not doing anything to discourage her. It’s inconsiderate at best.
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...its not his fault she does that. Maybe shes just crazy...now if you start finding weird little things back, or strange calls in the night...or "out of ordinary things"...then there could be a problem, but if the ball bounces...and hits the wall...then its just gonna bounce back...no damage, he cant do anything...so cut the drama unless there is drama to be taken care of. He fools around...you leave him...end of story.
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It IS his fault she does it because HE HASN'T TOLD HER TO STOP. Dump him now before he gets back with her and hurts you bad.
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It is not his fault that she does that, but it is his fault if he chooses not to tell her he doesn't appreciate her attention and that he is happy with you, or actively encourages behaviour which is past that of friendship. I would advise that you speak to him again, calmly, tell him how it makes you feel and why you are upset, and ask him to set her straight. Find out why he hasn't done so already. Getting mad at him won't help your relationship.
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