This happened to my cousin. Her step-dad was the perpetrator, and when they belated found out he had died (they found out recently that he dies a couple of years ago), my cousin was happy and looked as though a weight was lifted from her. I do not know if she looked forward to his death though. I could understand it if she had.

Sometimes I wish death upon the felon that knocked up my cousin and has ignored his child since then. This particular cousin and I where always very close. Our dads where identical twins, she's a year older then me and we where childhood playmates. We even had to get a DNA test to prove to him that it was his kid, not that it matters anymore.

Not ot me - but to other people I have loved. I think it should be an eternal type of torture.

Eventually the person that did the harm (molester) in my life (my Dad)killed himself. Which is INCREDIBLY MORE DIFFICULT of pain to live with.... but in the end he may have got the death he deserved. It hurts a lot to think about it. I was the one to blame in his note and tape recording. he died a violent death by a train running him over. He was not whole when they found him. Missing body parts. (just as my hearts missing parts) My Mom finally left him when I was 11 (in the beginning it was just a middle of the night pack bags for a 2 week vacation)After the 2 weeks my mom told him she was not coming back. We moved 600 miles away. She was tired of the drinking and womanizing. She knew he molested her little brother 7 years earlier and never left him. I CAN NOT EVEN BEGIN TO EXPLAIN THE PAIN THAT CAUSES ME TO KNOW A MOM LEFT HER CHILDREN IN A HOME WITH A MOLESTER FOR YEARS WHILE HE WAS IN HIS PLAYGROUND WITH OF US AND HER LITTLE BROTHERS NEAR BY!!!! I did not tell anyone for another 9 months after we left. My Mom called him and told him she knew then. 2 weeks later He killed himself becuase I told. 5 years later my brother told me it had been happening for 14 years for him and he was severely ashamed of it. He swore me to secretcy...I, of course let my mom know (after it ate me up for 6 months). Then 24 years later, last year my other brother finally admitted to me he remembers. Its been a little over 25 years now since he died. He killed himself on my oldest brothers 16th birthday. We were called into the principals office and was told what happened. Will never forget a detail of that day.

Yeah, I hope some other poor girl has the courage that I lacked to get that asshole locked up. I hope that he'll get to learn for himself how it feels. But even more than that I hope there doesn't have to be some other poor girl who just happens to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

no, the person who did me wrong has my hope that he lives forever.

I will have a private party in my mind and dance a happy dance. For my familys sake I will go to the funeral but not one single solatary tear will be shed and when no one is looking I will jump on his grave and beg God to let him suffer for eternity.

I watched the guy that molested me as child die of cancer on Dec.25th 2005. I also attended his funeral, and I am now at peace. Everything is in God's hands now. I have learn to let it go. I let the memories of it die with him.

yes and i will cherish that day!

Personally, I think that death is too good for the person whom my anger is toward. I wish for them to stay alive for a very long time to think and rethink about the pain they have caused, and to feel the guilt day after day, moment after moment and live it every day. Because that is what my sisters and brother have to go through, so I feel that this person should too. Death would ease their suffering, but I wish to prolong it as long as possible.

I used to wish HORRIABLE death on a guy that used to be my dads friend but then started giving him crack and drugs. I always blamed him for making it so accessable to my parents. My childhood was a living hell after this started happening. He used to "punish" them by now giving them anything if they called him too much or something like that.. He died last year and since his death I've realized that the only thing this man did was keep my parents in line.. because now their habits are WAY outta control to where i've even banned my son from seeing them.

one has TB, the other has parkinson's ... they will be in pain for a while

he didnt molest but he abused in other ways. i was wisihing he would die but then he did sick as it is i miss him so much.

I'd want them to suffer first. I've been in a position where the person went unpunished - NOT GOOD. You've heard about karma....well I'd like to be the one to make SURE that what went around came around.

Yes and Releaved.

Yes this has indeed happan to me, but unsure if he is dead or alive?!???** But I truly hope he is dead so he won't hurt anyone else, but probally has at some point in the last 27 years, but who knows he was old and disgusting when I was 8 so anywho I would feel estatic if i knew he was dead and rotting in hell.

At first, I did wish horrible things on this man. Then, I tried to take the high road, and forgive, but not forget. But, it didn't work. I've hated this man forever. He died 3 weeks ago. I felt absolutely nothing. Too many lives already ruined, (my little brother in and out of prison for 30 years, my step-sisters on drugs and many marriages each, and my wife says my inability to outwardly show love to MY children for fear it may look like I'm like he was). My wife has hated this man for years for what he cost our children. Now, 3 weeks later, I feel weird, because I still feel nothing, just relief.

No I do not wish their death. I have forgiven them and hope that they never did it to anyone else and that they have asked for forgiveness and have forgiven themself. If not.. like another ABer stated.. it is in God's hands. Me carrying around a heavy and hardened heart for many years hurt no one but me and I was only happy to let go of that pain and hurt and move on.