I'm 16 and been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months now and I love her. But recently I started to get more and more attracted to other girls, but my feelings are still there for my girlfriend. I'm confused can anyone tell me why I'm like this?
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ANSWERS: 16
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You're like that because you're 16 years old. Hormones. Just don't do anything stupid. You'll be fine.
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you'll probably have lots of girlfriends and will care about most of them, go with the flow
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That's what happens when you get attached to a female to quickly. You can’t date other girls.
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You will be attracted to lots of girls until you find the one that you will love in a mature way. You may "love" your girlfriend, and I don't doubt that you do, but it is not yet the sort of love that can build a long term relationship. Not yet anyway - I don't think a 16 year old is capable of it yet.
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Its perfectly natural for you to have feelings like this towards other girls, you are young and over the next few years you will fall in and out of love lots of times, its all part of the growing up process, so dont worry about it.
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You're 16 There's a reason all the old fogeys wonder why kids are trying to get into serious relationships at such a young age. They remember what they were like at 16 and the level of growth and maturity it took to have a REAL relationship. I am sure you love your gf, but when you're 28 you will look back at yourself and know the reality.
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You are young. It's called hormones and growing up. It will happen again (more than likely) before you settle down permanently. Don't get too worked up over it, but don't use it as an excuse for doing something that will hurt anyone else. We all go through this. It's part of the growing up process. Hell, I'm about twice your age and I have had that same problem quite a few times. Control yourself, but be true to yourself.
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The initial intense rush has subsided, and though you love your girlfriend ona more steady and deeper level, you may be yeraning for the intense rush with someone else.
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Its normal for your age. All us guys went through this at one time or another. You can look, but it appears your girlfriend has a special hold on you. She could be the permanent one, so trend slowly on the other girls.
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You are controlled by the little dictator in your trousers. Plus, you are a kid.
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Nah your just growing up. ☺
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In every relationship you will be attracted to other people as well as your partner but you do not know them as closely as you know your partner. Sometimes you will like them because they are different to people who you normally experience and anyone can feel bored with their partner at the best of times as we all do with people we spend too much time with. That is why when people are married they need an element of their own space as well. As you get older you will learn to control the temptation better. Most men wank in private without their partners (often over porn) and this helps to control it.
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you are like this because you are a normal 16 year old male...actually, just because you are in a committed relationship doesn't mean you won't find others attractive. With maturity and commitment comes impulse control.
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Because you are 16. It's hard enough for adults to be in a "committed relationship". At your age, you should be dating a variety of girls and having lots of friends lightly. You can make heavy commitments later. Please understand, I am not advocating casual sex, just dating and getting to know people and enjoying yourself as opposed to making binding commitments.
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your obviously a perv. your destined to be a perv.
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Because you're a normal 16 yr old male!! Trust me, growing up is all about playing the feild! Don't feel tied down to this girl, chances are, you will probably end up breaking up anyway... Go out and enjoy yourself!
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