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What kind of things have you done to try and impress someone?
by Dee.licious on October 8th, 2011
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Your first date with this girl. Ask her anything. Why not?
by einsteinwasright0116 on December 28th, 2011
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this is for guys and girls. Which body partnever fails to make you hard/hot. Be honest!
by DIYman Believes In Leonard Peltier on November 10th, 2011
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Are guys always nervous around pretty girls? Guys need to step their game up!
by anonymous on December 27th, 2011
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How do I get him to notice me?! Help!!!
by thenerdwholoveshermusic on November 9th, 2011
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You're reading Single women - why do you go out to bars and clubs with a bunch of other women? Don't you know that this will intimidate men from approaching you? Is that the idea - you go out with a bunch of girls to prevent men from trying to talk to you?
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I sort of agree with both. I see the need for physical and emotional security. (As well as the possibility that they may not want to be approached). But on the other hand as a guy its a heck of a lot easier to flirt with a girl who's kind of on her own then one who's got a bunch of friends around her.
by Valparaiso on February 19th, 2007
So ask her to the dance floor and then flirt away. Or ask her to have a drink with you at the bar, away from her friends. It's close enough that she'll feel safe and you'll get her 'alone'.
by Little Miss Dangerous on February 19th, 2007
little> A lot of it has to do with humiliation. If the girl is going to tell you no or humiliate you then you really don't want to it in front of a crowd.
by Valparaiso on February 20th, 2007
I know Val, I get it--really. It's the same for women too! But you have to put yourself out there a bit at some point. If all the gals are on the dance floor, why not try speaking to her then? It's not uncommon, and dancing is your forte, your comfort zone, no? ]
You'll undoubtedly have to scream in her ear to be heard, and so no one else will hear the response. Sending a drink over ensures the worst humiliation would be taking rejection from afar, but it may just get you a wave over to her table or bring her to you.
by Little Miss Dangerous on February 20th, 2007
I don't go out to bars much actually. I wasn't aware they had dancing. I'm not much of a drinker. . . (Which is why I didn't answer this question). If there was dancing I might consider it but honestly I'm only good at ballroom dancing because it has a structure to it that I understand. Plus I don't do the bar scene much because I'm about 95% certain that I would not be likely to find a woman that matches my views in a bar.
by Valparaiso on February 20th, 2007
Well, you can't rule anything out. Clubs here (US) are all about dancing, which you'd probably be good at (all you need is rhythm). I am Christian and am not a big drinker myself, but did occasionally go out with friends for fun. You might meet friends at a bar that introduce you to that special gal. Good luck!
by Little Miss Dangerous on February 20th, 2007
I've been to a club once and I definatly did not look cool.
by Valparaiso on February 20th, 2007
+6 to your last point there! I HATE getting hit on at bars, single or not. That's not where quality women go to find dates. Ew.
by Shelby on December 23rd, 2007