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Safety in numbers - on many levels. The obvious issue with physical safety. Also, there is safety from feeling rejected if you are with your girlfriends and no one approaches you. Also, safety in protecting oneself from getting hit on (who says that women who go to bars with their girlfriends WANT to have men approach them?)
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In my case, we go out to have a good time together. Just a few girl friends. But of course, it is nice to be approached, sometimes. But I'll take note of that.
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If a guy was too scared to approach me because I was with my friends then that would strike him off my list for a start. Also think of what it's like for females wanting to approach a guy but him being surrounded by his friends. It's no easier for females than males. It's safety in numbers and because not all females go to clubs or bars to meet men. Some go for the music, for the company of friends and to relax.
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I can see both sides, but since I'm a woman I'm a little biased :) I totally agree with safety in numbers - guys do it too! But, girls or guys who want to be hit on find a way to make themselves available to be approached by someone at a bar. It is difficult, especially with a pack of girls - you don't know what to expect! But be confident in yourself and your wingman :) Good luck!
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I HAVE IT EASY CUZ I'M WHITE AND IN TO BLK MEN AND MY FRIENDS WOULD NEVER LOOK AT A BLK MAN (THATS WRONG I NO) SO I GET THE MEN I WANT......LOL
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I go to a bar to dance and have fun with my friends, not to have guys pick me up.
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Sometimes. Women aren't just at the bar for a man, how egotistical! Women go out to have fun too, you know! Some women actually ask guys out these days too.
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haha im not saying this to b a smart ass im saying this because this is what i do every itme me na d man break up...we go out with friends....because we want girl time and we want to be flirty and we want to b the one approaching the guys, if a guy just broke up with us, we dont one men to come all over us talking sweet shit, hell no we want our girls by our sides so we can wrok up the courage to go talk to the guys, to approach em, so we feel like even tho that loser just dumped us, we still got it!
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If you're too pussy to approach a girl when she is with her friends then you'll never get any pussy :)
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When I got out to the bar with a bunch of girls it's to go out with the girls. I give props to the guy who can still come talk to us, cause some do, but the point isn't being there to pick up strange men from the bar. Half the time when I've gone out with a bunch of girls most, if not all, of us were in relationships. We just wanted to go out and dance.
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Whoa, am I the only girl out there who wouldn't mind being approached by guys at a bar or club? I hardly ever am, even though lots of guys say i'm "hot". So my looks aren't working against at me. But of course I go out with a group of friends. I'm not going to go all by myself. That wouldn't be fun. I do break away from the group every so often and smile at passing guys. What else can I do to be approachable? I know, I know - I could approach a guy myself, but the question I'm asking is how do I present myself as approachable?
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Women mostly go to clubs with groups of other women just to have a good time, not to meet men. We go out to get away from the children, husbands, ect. We wanna dance and have a good time, not be hounded over.
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Maybe the wannabes will get scared away, but not this guy. It's actually easier to talk to a girl when she is with her friends. You can engage the whole group, and if her friends like you, it is much easier to get her to like you. I could write an entire book on this, but I'll stop here. :)
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thats true, but not all single ladies want to be approached in bars. some just go to have fun with their friends.
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geeshhhh...maybe THEY want to have fun too. Maybe they arent JUST there so you can pick who to have sex with that night. Maybe they dont really care to talk to you and maybe they arent even available. Cant the girls just go out for fun without it being some attempt to pick up men?
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If I go out with my female friends, I'm not looking to hook up with a man. If I wanted to do that, I sure would NOT go to a bar to find one....
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