I think its just normal to feel very weird because she was way up ahead of you of that and no guy (ON MY OPINION) should feel 2nd best to their significant other, you should always feel like the best or 1st or something.....

I lost my virginity when i was 16. 1st) bf of 3yrs. 2nd) rebound fuck w bff. 3rd) one night stand 4th) just dating for a few months, hooked up every now and then 5th) just dating for a couple months i thought sex was something special until my ex of 3yrs ruined it for me. then i met my last bf number 6 (we broke up a few days ago) were going out for a few months. hes 19. i took his virginity. i think he felt insecure about my past relations. actually im positive he was insecure. even though he has been the ONLY one to get me to orgasm EVER. and i let him know that too. i mean, he should feel kinda good about that right? well, hope this helped a little. yes its natural to have insecurities. especially when youre up against someone with more experience. talk to her about it if it keeps bugging you.. okay? shes in this too.

Its normal nothing abnormal in what u r feeling , anyone will go thru the same kinda feeling u r going at the moment , but its temprary u wont feel it for long time :)

woah, you guys rule! 1)Mr india This temp period is really long 2)Miss Bunny, I spoke/SHOUTED to that fucking bitch about it a BILLION times, I can't help but get angry at the stupidity, I know I'm stupid but wdf stupidity can't be this bad in the world can it? besides she changes her stories everytime so i don't know whats the truth and whats the lie. 3)and Mr/Mrs Mille I do feel special but even if i look at the smallest thing that reminds me of it it triggers a crazy BOMB inside me

im the same boat as you buddy, but i dont feel secind best, i love her and she loves me and that (to me is far more imporatant. i dont like the idea of her sleeping with random strangers though (hurts :( )

Hello, I am in a similar position to you so thought i would leave an answer. I am 21, my gf is 22, and she was my first and we have been going out for nearly 9 months now. I was her 5th. This involved 2 boyfriends, and 2 guys that were almost boyfriends and really strung her along terribly and used her when she was vulnerable. I know this number isn't massive (or is it???)(and you don't mention your age so i am not sure where this kinda fits) and the situations were understandable but this really hit me hard. I understand what you mean when you say this worry seems to last a long time, as it really did, and has done for me too. But overall I have basically concluded that; 1)Simply, as the male, be it archaic and wrong or whatever, I feel I should be the more experienced one. 2)I really love her, and think the world of her, and the thought of her being treated badly and acting in this way really hurts cos i really think she deserves the best which she has not had. 3)Also, be it my low self-esteem or whatever, I fear a reputation she may have gained and consequently the image of me as another or her being labelled as easy or something undesirable by other people when we are out together isn't nice. I have really been through this alot in my mind, and i am still with her, think she is amazing, and it is getting better so if you want to talk more just comment on me.

Why drive yourself crazy? Are you looking for an excuse to leave her? . Why judge her past... why not accept what she is to you right now. Does she make you happy?. . Me thinks you should find better use of your time and stop sulking... if you leave her you'll find another gf and another and so on, what then? . Grow yourself... then either grow with her or with another... but you will never be happy acting like a child.

It's normal, since you're not even second. You're seventh. And you wont be the last. ONE one-night stand may be just a dumb mistake, but three of them means she's just eager to get laid by anyone. Have your doctor check you for venereal diseases. You've probably picked up a few of them from her.

I don't blame you for feeling weird about it and I think you should get checked for STD's just in case. A girl that's had 3 1-night stands probably has some kind of psychological problem though. You might have given your thing up with the wrong person....sorry.

Yes, it's normal. I feel the same way with my bf.