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  • Jade, sweetheart--trying to adjust to being a member of a blended family is very difficult for everyone, not only for you but for your mom and sister, and for your stepfather and stepbrother as well--combining the habits, values, routines and expectations of two different families involves not only being considerate of everyone's sensibilities but being willing to compromise on small and relatively unimportant details of daily life and interaction.
  • is it because your stepfather/bros are being TRUE jerks to you (as in abusive)? or is it because of little things like them taking over the shower/tv/house, etc? trust me, it's hard to live with ANYBODY, so accept that you're in a difficult situation if they're truly being abusive, get your mom and the cops involved if they are just being jackasses, just take a few deep breaths and hack it. You sound very young and unfortunately, when we're young we have to deal with other people's s*** (it especially sucks at a young age because we know so much less about dealing with strong emotions like anger) I will tell you this though: LEARN FROM THIS EXPERIENCE As in, it's obvious you don't like dealing with other people's s*** (who does?), so make sure you do EVERYTHING you need to do to be independent. That means, no screwing up in school/work, etc FOCUS so that you can be done with the whole damn situation, get the heck out of that house and never need to depend on them. Good luck

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