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  • you'll have to try to trust her until she gets to old for that if you want to stay with her if you talk to her about it she might go less but chances are she won't stop
  • Well you either trust her or not. if you trust her then no matter were she goes it will not be a problem
  • probably right. confronting her might make her want to rebel against you (women) and do it some more.
  • I can understand where your coming from. But if you really do love her to death, as you say. You must have trust in her, as a big part of that love. Same goes in her having trust in you. For without trust, there is no true love.......Just my point of view tho.....M.C.S.
  • It's girls' night out. Do you trust your girlfriend? If so, then don't worry about it. If not, you have a relationship problem.
  • This isn't a question about her . . . it's really about how secure you are within yourself. If you think she has a good deal with you then she'd be crazy to go for someone else and jeopardize a good thing. If she DID do something crazy, kick her to the curb because you don't want someone unless they have the same values as yours (I'm assuming you are a loyal guy). Forget it until you're confronted with the reality of something.
  • ITS ACTUALLY not. pleny of girls like to just have a girls night out and go dancing. dont you ever have a guys night at a pub?
  • If she goes with other girls on a night out, I wouldn’t worry too much. Trust is a beg issued. Without trust, you don't have anything. Because, eventually you'll be right out of the whole picture. So toughen up and let her have some fun. She can still have a BF and continue to have fun with her GF. Just because you came along, she shouldn’t have to drop all her friends and change her venue just for you. Because you're going with her, she is still her own person. Don't expect her to be with you every available minute. She has things she wants to do. When the time is right, and if you both are destined to be as one, it will happen in due time. Just let things run its course. Trust, Trust , Trust, is a Must, Must, Must..
  • Remember this little jem of advice my moron father once gave me in his Staten Island ginny kind of quasi wisdom way. "If your in love with him and he is in love with you, no matter what you do or where you go he/she is going to be loyal. If he/she is a dirty fuc*ing whore, its only a matter of time before they cheat no matter where they are it could be the post office for christ's sake." Ahhh... Should I start my memoirs now? Dear old dad. *And yes... That was a literal quote too. Verbatum!
  • First, remember that self confidence is very sexy to women. What you're displaying is a lack thereof, as shown by your worry that she's going to a meet market. She may be going to get a little attention and maybe even flirt a little. We men do this as well & it's OK as long as we have limits and don't cross those lines. So, if you trust her, let her go and be happy. Just treat her the right way at home and she won't have a reason to stray.
  • no you shouldnt worry not if shes with her close friends having a fun night dancing. if they go to the club together and leave together its all good. what is shady when a girl only goes with one or two other girls or a group shes not even close with, has no real ties to, and meets up with them there, and not knowing who shes leaving with. when girls go out with their gfs they have their backs only worry if she doesnt have that back up.
  • Trusting her is all that matters as she trusts you right? We all look at memebers of the oppisite sex, we are only human. Its how she feels about you and who she is going home with or coming home to that really matters. Its what she feels in her heart for you. You have been together for a long time and naturally when we are in a new relationship or one that has lasted years we are going to feel a little itch, its weather or not you scratch that itch that matters. I say look but dont touch. You can be friends with people of the oppisite sex to its totally fine. No harm in being friends its when lines get crossed that we need to worry

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