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If you werent technically together and she hasnt done it again during your relationship then why would you break up with her.
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Here's the deal. You have to do what you are comfortale with. If you feel you can trust her after she lied to you about her cheating, then stay with her, if that is what you want to do. If you can't trust her, or don't want to, don't stay with her. You guys need to talk this out and find out why it happened. There is definately underlying problems that need to be dealt with before you two can move on.
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Everyone makes mistakes. I've known honorable people who have cheated in a relationship. I suggest putting it behind you, so long as you make it clear that if it happens again there will be more serious consequences.
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It seems to me that you definitely WANT to give her a chance by the way you are still kind of taking up for her. If you really love this girl and can get past it, then yeah, give her another chance. But if you know you are never going to be able to put it behind you 100 percent, then absolutely end it now.
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If she is that upset about it i think she regrets it and probably won't repeat the mistake. if you make a big deal of this she probably wont tell you anything again. if she is punished, i mean, and make another mistake of the same magnitude, you'll never get it out of her. if you decide to stay with her, and i'm not really saying you should, you'll just have to follow your heart on that one. but if you decide to stay with her you have to make her happy, somehow, that she told you. reward her in some small way for finally coming clean. that way in the future she'll feel she can tell you anything.
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You're bothered that she kissed someone the week you met? Did you say "Hi my name is Confused12, would you like to start an exclusive relationship with me today?" And did she say "Yes"? If you weren't dating yet, and you definitely weren't "in a relationship" or "boyfriend/girlfriend" yet, it's not cheating. She may regret it, and it may bother you, but the kiss isn't the problem here. I think the problem is that she felt the need to lie about it. She's been lying to you for 4 months about something that doesn't even matter. If she regrets lying, and you forgive her for the LYING (not the kissing) then I say move on. However, is this the only thing she's lied about? That's what would concern me.
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