by EverVigil on March 29th, 2009

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How do you tell someone that thinks they sound amazing when they're singing, that they sound really horrible? BTW- I only want to do this for my friends own good. Don't want her to be embarrassed like all those people during the first few shows of Idol.

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  • by Taciturnu on March 29th, 2009

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    If she were my friend, I wouldn't. It's not like she's wearing a dress that makes her look pregnant that takes a quick wardrobe change. This sounds like something she loves doing. I think it's more important to let your friends know that you believe in them. She will learn that people don't hear her singing as she hears it, so there's no need for you to be the messenger.

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  • by Anonymous on April 10th, 2009

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    You should tell your friend, especially if they want to be a professional or go on Idol or sing a solo for some concert or something. BUT YOU NEED TO DO IT GENTLY AND BE SENSITIVE TO THEIR FEELINGS!!!!! If they're just singing for fun, use your judgement. You might still want to tell her, but if she's only doing it because she loves it ( and isn't set on going somewhere with it), it shouldn't really matter anyway, right?

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  • by Heidi on April 8th, 2009

    Heidi

    Be very kind, my friends and I get together and sing a few were in a band, so we all sound good, but one person is always trying to sing, but cannot at all. He has told me I have a great voice how can I help him?? I told him he has not only to sing but to hear yourself. That is the key, he said he can't hear himself and I told him he say to learn this..

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  • by Prunesquallor on March 29th, 2009

    Prunesquallor

    Record them, and let them hear for themselves. If they still think they sound great, then their level of self-delusion is so great nothing you could do would dent it.

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  • by bagicide stayed 10 months too long on March 29th, 2009

    bagicide stayed 10 months too long

    At least she is cheerful and brave. Unless she is actually planning on auditioning, keep it to yourself and let her sing.

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  • by Seeya says Dont Ever Give Up on March 29th, 2009

    Seeya  says Dont Ever Give Up

    just blurt it out!

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  • by RiverRat on March 29th, 2009

    RiverRat

    wait until you hear her singing and then burst in the room and ask "who let the dogs IN?"

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