My bf has 2 kids with a woman and never married her.since 2 years she asks him to join her and make a big family, she contacts very often.He says he wants to stay with me but her e-mails worry me. you think one day he will go back to her??we have no kids

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• thanks for your answer, what she does is that uses the children and because they have "history" she uses that too.is a difficult situation really that goes on and on....

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  by Anonymous on March 17th, 2009

• I feel for ya. My fiance has a crazy ex-wife. They had two kids together and she thinks she owns him still. Wears her wedding ring. Keeps his last name. Tries to boss him around...if I wouldn't go to jail for it I would've already broken her nose.

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  by Designeedawn on March 17th, 2009

• ;;;;))))) me to ;;;))))

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  by Anonymous on March 17th, 2009

• Best bet is when she gets a boyfriend. Then she won't obsess and harass so much. Until he also breaks up with her cause she's a nutter...

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  by Designeedawn on March 17th, 2009

• well the truth is that she has had relations during this time but as she says not serious ones she says she keeps them because they are good at sex and the only love is my boyfriend and she will wait for him forever, can you believe that???? she keeps him informed on her relations of course by adding just relations but you are the one !!!!!!!!! i feel sometimes this will never end unless when one of them dies...

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  by Anonymous on March 17th, 2009

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• thanks for your support and the time to write to me, i knew before about his children and he took his responsibilities with them.i know i have to trust him he deserves that but knowing she is insisting so much is not easy to face.

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  by Anonymous on March 17th, 2009

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• thanks for answering to my questions. i have talked with him and he said does not intend to go back to her, he wants to get married to me, but because she insists so much and writes things about her love life to make him jealous, and she uses the kids to make him feel miserable, and my worry is that he might miss the kids and considering she does not give up he might go back, i know i have to trust him and i will try hard not to let this to interfere in our relationship.thanks again wish you the best

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  by Anonymous on March 17th, 2009

• You're welcome amiga :)
  My dad is remarried, he spends tons of time with his children and only communicates with my mother when it is something concernign us.
  This is how it should be with your man and his ex. If she persists in writing things about her love life to iritate him, he could even take that to a laywer :]
  I wish you two all the best!

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  by Moon Unit on March 17th, 2009