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  • dont play games, games are for kids. if you like him, be straight
  • Ya' know ... IF you are so into playing head games ; you probably not ready for a REAL relationship ... Don't play the damm games ... be up front with the guy as you want him to be with you .... IF you aren't you will lose him before you even get him ...
  • Maybe, but it depends on a guy..
  • You know people keep playing these psychological games, and sadly if you dont play the game right, you will loose. Why cant people just be straight up on how they feel instead of playing these games.
  • If he's not your husband, what does it matter?
  • Sometimes talking every single day can start to burn both of you out if you just met, getting close really fast. You can give the impression that you are busy, but he may also give the impression that he is not worried about it, it goes both ways.
  • OK, I successfully stopped myself from putting both my feet in my mouth by reading everybody else's answers and comments. So I now know it's NOT about YOU, as a 24 year old wife, doing this! <Whew! Close call!> What you are asking has everything to do with MOTIVES...the driving force behind the person who is emailing the guy...and not all that much to do with the guy getting the emails. I would say that emailing should follow along the same lines that natural communications would. Email when you want and talk about what you want. If you get tired of it, bored, or just plain busy with other things in life, then let it be for a while. There is nothing wrong with not emailing for a while because you have a life to attend to. Everybody has things they need to do and they set their priorities accordingly. But if the reason a person wants to stop is to MAKE someone miss them...then I have to question the motives because this sounds like manipulative behavior. There is, however, nothing wrong with 'testing the waters', as it were, by stopping to see what happens. This is part of our natural desire to know and understand those we interact with...part of how we learn about others through interaction. It is difficult to say, just by going with what you have asked and not knowing more about the people involved. You would know more...so I would say you would have to ask yourself "What are her motives" when you think about all the other stuff you know about.
  • My jaw dropped when I saw your question. If I was the guy you've been emailing and I saw you post this question I would cut it off with you, immediately and completely. I've had to deal with the game playing for far too long. That's manipulative behavior and a relationship has barely gotten started. You should rethink how you are approaching people. For some people that may be normal behavior but the people worth having around don't think that way.

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