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What's uni?
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Have some respect and come home earlier or call when you are going to be that late. University is no reason to not be able to move out. Get a job. Lots of people work while in college.
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Well since you live with her, why don't you just come home at a decent hour?? Besides, we don't know who or what uni is?
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tell her to get with it and pull her head in...move into the uni campus?
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lucky i wish she would stop trying to talk to me i dont get along with my parents but you should let her be and she will forget about
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You could try being a good daughter and respecting your mother's wishes.
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You both have issues you need to discuss. Save enough money so you can get your own place.
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Uh...try not to come home so late?
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Obviously you are a guest in your mother's home and apparently she feels you are abusing her hospitality. I'd suggest that if you want to do as you please, that you get a part time job and share an apartment. I worked full time, paid all my university bills and my housing. I know it can be done.
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You should ask her why it bothers her? or if you think you know why then you should talk to her and come to an agreement...maybe all she wants is for you to let her know when you are coming home
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What is uni? Your mother does not want to let go and is still looking out for your safety. this is perfectly understandable, since you still live at home. you will understand this one day, when you have a child of your own. You may have to live with this situation, until you are able to move out. Sorry.
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The thing of it is, is that you are living with your mom, and when you live with someone else, you have to respect their rules etc. (No matter how old you are...) So, what I would do, is ask her why it bothers her... if its the late hour you get home, then come home earlier.. If its that she doesnt know when you are coming/going then let her know your plans ahead of time. Maybe its the frequency of your late nights.. you wont know unless you ask her. Unless you can afford to move out, then you will probably be stuck following her rules. Dont worry, it wont last forever.
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Situations like this many times deteriorate because of break downs in communications and expectations of both the parent and the child. Your mom has expressed some strong language towards you which to me suggests she is not at all pleased with your comings and goings and or what you are doing while out. You may try discussing with her your need to go out and hopefully she can express her views and expectations to see where the disconnect is occurring between you two.
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