I am not a Witness, but I have deep respect for them and after some of the comments, feel the need to share my two-cents.
It never ceases to amaze me the people who will comment about a topic who are mostly, if not completely, "clueless" about, yet still feel their comments hold some merit. A few of you need to educate yourself about a topic before you comment about it so you don't appear as ignorant as you obviously are. That means going directly to Witnesses to find out the CORRECT answer to a question instead of talking to others who are probably as ignorant/opinionated as you are, or worse, going to some moron website of Witness-haters for information. Obviously this type of individual(s) is/are already biased, so what do you think they're going to say?
First of all, JW's DO NOT WITHHOLD medical treatment from their minor children. Like any parent, they want their children to be happy and healthy.
Next, JW's do not accept BLOOD transfusions, however, they DO accept other alternate forms of treatment, for example, NON-BLOOD EXPANDERS or whatever other NON-BLOOD alternatives are currently available.
I can't help but believe that a big issue with the medical industry that is STILL fighting this issue with Witnesses, is the fact the actual BLOOD is more expensive than the alternate treatments. So, could this ridiculous argument be partly because the hospital won't be able to charge as much for other treatments?? Me thinks that the whole medical industry is operated and based primarily on the "bottom line" and what will make them more money. I know of an example 25+ years ago of a Witness couple who had a baby born with a certain defect (I don't remember what it was now)that required an immediate transfusion. Of course, the parents refused. The doctor proceeded with the transfusion anyway calling the parents irresponsible - well, the child died. It had nothing to do with a long time-frame passing waiting for a court order either because the doctor proceeded without it. The situation ended up in court, however, and the doctor was severely reprimanded for playing "GOD". It was determined that the child would not have lived anyway. So much for "Medical" wisdom.
There is so much "talk" of the latest and greatest medical technologies, yet a lot of medicine still seems to be stuck in the "dark-ages" when it comes to blood transfusions or even cancer treatments for that matter. Ask yourself why.
Witness children, like ALL children, grow up and have the choice to pursue their childhood beliefs or not.
As far as doctors and courts that FORCE these procedures on Witnesses or their minor children, they will answer for their actions in due course from a higher authority.
And no, Witnesses who have had these procedures "forced" on them are not scorned by fellow Witnesses.
There is even more at stake here - medical, religious, personal, and other freedoms. Some of you say, "it's cruel and insane to withhold a blood transfusion from your child if they need it to save their life". How do you (or the doctor) know FOR SURE that something will save their life? Current cancer "treatments" are supposed to save lives, yet many people still die from these "treatments". Of course, insurance companies are still billed.
I don't know about the rest of you, but I don't want the Government making choices for me about my medical care. We already have too much government in our face. I don't mind my doctor making recommendations to me but I certainly don't want him/her playing God with my life.
I wonder how many of you non-witness "parents" out there are allowing your kids to do things each day that may be life threatening, over the long term, and yet you don't have a second thought about it. But you have time to berate Witnesses instead of watching over your own households. As another poster mentioned, how many of you with kids smoke in their presence? As I'm sure you're aware, second-hand smoke kills thousands in this country every year. Why is that not considered child-abuse? Why is the medical industry not screaming about that? Where are the "court orders" for that?? How many of you feed your kids fast-food crap everyday or every week and watch them get fatter and fatter? How many of you let your kids play violent video games daily, poisoning their minds? Why isn't this considered child-abuse and contributing to the delinquency of a minor? How many of YOU are making life-altering/changing decisions for your minor children because YOU are the parent and they are too young to decide? How do you know they would make the same choice??? The list goes on and on. I can almost guarantee that some of these people that are slamming Witnesses are the very same people doing the things I just mentioned. Before judging others, why don't you "clean your own house first"?
And to the person who made the comment about them staying at your house for hours.......well, if that's true and not a fabrication on your part, then obviously you didn't make clear that you didn't want them there for hours, or at all, because they would have left. They do not wish to waste anybody's time especially theirs, on people who are not interested in their message.
As far as Witnesses being "borderline retarded". Well, that kind of comment really doesn't tell me anything other than the person who wrote it is very narrow-minded and incredibly ignorant. Please refer to my second paragraph above.
Comments
1: "No parent should have the right to place God above..."
No matter how you finish that sentence, it's wrong. For a Christian, serving God is above -everything- else. No matter what treasures you store up on earth, it's temporary. No matter how long you hold on to this imperfect life... it's temporary. Would you really forsake the "treasures you've stored up in heaven" in order to futiley grasp on to this imperfect life for a while longer?
2: JWs don't simply "Refuse blood transfusions" ... we insist upon safer, more effective alternatives. Such alternatives are readily available if the hospitals will get on the ball and start using the best that is currently available. Blood is not that. That is why, for purely secular, medical reasons... there are over 100 hospitals across the US that have entirely stopped using blood transfusions.
What's immoral is that so many hospitals are lagging so far behind when safer alternatives are available.
by That guy on November 21st, 2009
They're not. They are just wanting better medical treatment for their children, from competent physicians. Physicians who believe that blood transfusion is the best and/or only viable treatment are incompetent and uninformed. Competent physicians realize that alternatives to blood transfusion are superior treatment options.
by Ben on August 2nd, 2010
These alternatives are only relevant as volume expanders, but not for restoring the oxygen-carrying ability of the blood in the body
by MisterKami on April 17th, 2012