He needs therapy!!! This is disrupting your relationship. And, why your mother? Does he have a sexual thing for her?? THERAPY,THERAPY,THERAPY,THERAPY,THERAPY,THERAPY,THERAPY,

Did you know about his foot fetish before you got married? Has something changed? Anyway, you shouldn't do anything you're not comfortable with. Let him take his own pictures and maybe get some counseling. And tell him to leave your mom out of your bedroom! Ewwww!

Your mother eewww.... are your feet not enough for him??? Maybe you could try to entice him with your feet...

Well there is nothign wrong with having a foot fetish the fact that he is focusing it around your mother and wanting you to take pictures of other peoples feet for him is a rather disturbing aspect. No one should do anything they feel uncomfortable with. I would tell him that involving your mother in anyway into your sex life is unacceptable and if he wants pictures of feet he can check out the internet. If he can not accept and respect your feelings then it would seem your problems go deeper than this and maybe some counseling would help.

MNore info....We have known each other for 2 years and I have done EVERYTHING to fulfill (modeling, foot action etc.) but lately he keeps raising the annie.(sp?) I have over 100 pairs of heels and I dance for him and everything. I have even taken pics of my own feet and some of friends, but lately we can't go out without him bringing the camera and expecting me to take pics. I have asked my mom for shoes and she sent the ones that she wore to our wedding and now he wants another pair even though she has said no. He wants me to tell everyone about his fetish and has refused to go to counciling stating that I only want to hear that I am right. It is getting SOOO OLD! And I feel bad for our 3 sons with the thought of divorce. He has been a stay at home dad for 9 years now and I think it is starting to wear on his mind, but he refuses to get a job. We have a 1 year old...timing is everything! Maybe divorce is the only answer for both of us. What do u think?

My husband has a foot and tickle fetish. I thought it was harmless. It's not. I've tried to do things through the years that please him...laughing while he tickled me during sex, making up sex stories involving tickling feet... but the bottom line is that my feet, my body, sex...everything was him using me to fulfill his sexual fetish. It was never about loving me or making love together. I always thought it was my fault...that i wasn't sexy enough, that i didn't keep my feet nice enough for him. I was wrong. His pleasure is his fantasy, and that's all. If he refuses to get help, if he refuses to change, then get out while you still can, before 25 years pass and you realize that you're just a prop in his sex fantasy.

He is a freak. Foot fetish is fine - I love pretty feet and they are a turn on - but - your mother? Run Forest Run

Give him what he wants, then ask for a diamond bracelet.Get something out of it to..

If this is the case he's a little disturbed. I made the mistake of conforming to that sort of thing because I thought at the time it would help my relationship but in retrospect it just dug a deeper hole. I'm concerned that in the future you'll find that it's gotten out of control and the relationship will come to a screeching halt.

I agree get out while you can my husband of 4 years has a foot and tickle fetish. I do not, and thought I could live with this. I am very unhappy now and quite miserable. My husband will not stop nor get help. He does not want to stop even if it means losing me. He has tickle me so hard once he bruised my right kidney. Yes there will always be bruises. It is no longer making love just misery. Please get out while you still can.

I have a foot fetish but I find your husband quite disturbed. He wants you to talk about your mother's feet? That is not cool. He should be interested in you not your mother. He wants you to take pics of others feet at social events? Why? He obviously is not satisfied with your feet and wants to get off on others as well. I find him very disturbed. I have a foot fetish and I love it but I would never do the things he does. I find it disrespectful that he wants you to take pics of others feet for him. I find it disrespectful that he wants you to disrespect other women by taking pics of their feet without their permission so he can jerk off to them. That's exactly why he wants those pics. There is no other reason why he would want them. Again I am a man with a foot fetish and I feel that he is giving the rest of us a bad name.

your husband sounds like a bit of a sick puppy to me. Nothing wrong with a little fetish now and then but to bring your mother (or anyone's for that matter) into the bedroom is just wrong. A friend once told me that you should never do anything in the bedroom that you don't like - that's not what sex is all about even if your partner does get off on it. You should try and establish some ground rules if you want to stick it out with him. Take control of his fantasy as it involves you. Tell him what you will and will not do and when. Could be a great opportunity to get some amazing shoes!!!!!

To be fair, as we do not know all that much about your situation, you need to examine his behavior and your feelings about it to determine the validity of your complaint. I don't mean to say or imply anything negative about you at all. As humans we sometimes have the propensity to embellish the extent of things to assuage our emotions and place ourselves in a defendable and favorable position in our own eyes and the eyes of others. Particularly if something our partner has done has either hurt us or shocked us in some way. I know I have caught my self doing this from time to time, it's a natural form of self protection, but it is not fair. Also to be fair, it needs to be said, that there are those who would not find his requests disturbing at all. There are individuals who would be more than willing to "play along" with him in these activities as long as the other aspects of the relationship were in balance, going well, and the relationship was meeting their needs as well. Sexual relationships are not as simple as we would like to think of them as being and many things can come to light during the course of a sexual relationship. That he feels free enough to express his needs as openly as he dose with you implies one of two things: that he feels secure enough in your relationship that he can be honest with you about his fetish, or it could imply that his "fetish" has moved into an area where his need are outweighing his ability to control them and keep them within your acceptable boundaries. This then begs the question, is he aware that you have these boundaries? We often think that we have communicated something to our partner, but in reality we haven't, at least not in a way that allows them to truly grasp them and apply them effectively within the relationship. It sounds like, that from time to time you shutdown and he gets angry, this implies that there is a disconnect... the communication between the two of you is not being effective. Communication particularly dealing with sexuality is very tricky it has to be couched in a voice that dose not evoke a negative or guilty reaction and from a position of love and trying to come to an understanding of our partner and their needs in conjunction with our own needs. Not an easy thing to do. The other thing to consider as well is are your needs being met and is he aware of what your needs are? This is equally as important within the context of this situation because if your needs are not being met then his needs will seem all the more distorted, extreme, and outlandish due to your dissatisfaction with the relationship. There is nothing wrong with having a "fetish" in reality many of us do have them, but when a "fetish" begins to disrupt and affect our lives or relationships negatively, it needs to be discussed and understood. You and your partner need to develop the language and environment that will allow you to have these conversations. Until these conversations can take place you really cannot determine what the real situation is with his fetish. Is it a case of not really being aware of and therefore crossing a boundary or is it really something more serious. Reading through this it seems obvious that from your perspective things are out of balance and are taking on some disturbing aspects. At this time confronting him with your concerns point blank will probably be of little help. Dealing with problems of this nature takes time and skills that the both of you probably don't have. You may have to take the first step and get counseling on your own. Let him know that you are, if he asks why you are going to counseling be honest but kind. If he is shown gently that his behavior is having a negative affect on your relationship he may be more willing and open to going to counseling with you if he is not made to feel bad or guilty about his sexuality. Both of you need to get some help in order to develop the means, skills, and language to discuss this matter with each other to sort this situation out and find a solution that is acceptable to the both of you. Also remember to try and keep your sense of humor about it all-sometimes being able to laugh about a thing and move it into a humorous frame of mind makes it easier to deal with when the going get intense. Good luck to the both of you and I hope it can be worked out between the two of you in a positive way.