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  • You have two options; Option 1: Ignore the flirting, be her friend and remain safely in the friend zone forever..never moving forward BUT never moving back and losing her as a friend Option 2: Persue the flirting, then get your heart ripped out when she goes a little further than she planned, regrets it the next day, ignores you, avoids you, then says she's not sure if you can remain friends but she can't be your girlfriend because she doesn't think of you that way and only wanted to be friends but she made a mistake and now things are awkward...then you are out a friend as well. maybe it won't happen, maybe she is falling for you, but in my years on this rock more often than not when a woman puts you in the friend zone, you make a move and she turns you down but then remains a friend...either nothing ever comes out of the relationship but being friends (which isn't necessarily a bad thing) or something happens in a moment of weakness and then flubs up the whole friendship. Take your chances if you want, but if you go for the jackpot you might lose it all!
  • maybe things have changed between you both and maybe she feels attracted to you for some reason. therefor, keep with the flirting, but not for too long, a couple of weeks is enough, then confront her, ask her out (she'll say yes because you're friends), but be sure to let her know, that you are asking her OUT OUT, and see what she says. If she says no, just explain that you got the wrong idea from all the flirting, it'll be fine. Depends if you're still interested in her though, because guys can also (albeit it takes longer) come around to the fact that you just want to be friends. I work with a hot as fuck girl and I fancied the pants of her when I started, but I had another gf at the time and didn't want to do anything. But the more I got closer to this girl at work, the more I knew that we would not be compatable. we're good friends, but I wouldn't sleep with her (one night stand thing) cos we work together. good luck tho'

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