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by suzycue on February 7th, 2009
Another interpretation: Unselfish.
by JakobA I^_^I the alooney on February 7th, 2009
There are lots of possibilities.
Most likely I guess is they do not want you to spend money on them. And while the reason for that could be thrift, it certainly do not mean that they are 'cheap'.
Or maybe they know you well enough to predict that you will buy them something utterly useless and unwanted, witch will then make them obligated when your birthday comes along. (PS: it really IS very difficult to find a good gift for people from a different culture and of different age)
regards JakobA
by lonelydragon on February 7th, 2009
It's probably because they grew up in a post-WWII, very poor Germany.
by Old School on February 7th, 2009
I suspect that, much like my parents, the lessons of thrift that they were *forced* to learn in the aftermath of WW II have stuck with them for a lifetime.
I don't think it's so much a 'German' thing as a 'post-war refugee' thing.
by dea_ex_machina on February 7th, 2009
It may not be the nationality, but the age, and experiences they have had. My father, who is from NI feels the same, and my mother, who is Dutch is exactly the same. What they have in common is that they went through the war, and lived through difficult financial times. Maybe that is the answer.
by LindsayJ. on February 7th, 2009
i dont think theyre cheap eactly[i too came from a german family] but itd a culture thing.
do you also find your family to be very cold EXCEPT in times of tragedy>
by eric on February 7th, 2009
Das Tightenwad!
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on February 7th, 2009
I think your choice of words is unkind my friend. You might more properly have used the word "frugal". They are trying to conserve the assets of their children are they not? Why would you call that cheap and not loving or selfless or thoughtful? If you walked in your father's shoes and lived his life perhaps you might understand him better..so too with the daughter of that older German woman. You cannot possibly judge that which you do not understand and clearly neither of you can fathom why your parents would make that choice. I understand perfectly well. Happy Saturday!
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He spent so much money on me raising me from a baby to the age of 20, the least I can do is bring him some nice imported beer for him to enjoy.
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on February 7th, 2009
Do it anyway...he will never agree...but he will be tickled that you did!
by suzycue on February 7th, 2009