Would you try to get even with someone who betrayed you?
by 
Colt COAT of Justice
ANSWERS: 17
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If I have my wits about me, no. Better to move on and not tie your energy up trying to change what's in the past.
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Yes, for years I let things go & they started piling up so I started taking out the trash so to speak & got my revenge. For what ever reason once you get even sometimes you have a bigger problem sometimes you don't. But I got the point across & have no regrets, you can only take so much before you snap & I can give as good as I can take. They just better hope for their sake if they cross me they can too.
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I was taught by my one-half Cherokee grandmother that it is so much better to leave these things in the hands of the ancestors, who know and see all. For example, if I had been betrayed and wanted revenge, it would be a far greater revenge to let the ancestors act on my bahalf in meeting out punishment, because they can do it in ways that would get me into trouble. Plus, if the other person is innocent or didn't have harm in their intent, the ancestors will know that and let them off of the hook, so to speak. That is what the scriptures preach too, as God says revenge is his and his alone. I suspect for the same reasons. And yes, this does work for those of you who are not Native American. Ancestors are ancestors, you still have them. They are in a differet dimension at the moment.
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No. That would mean giving them importance they don't deserve. I will not forget the betrayal but from that moment onwards the betrayer does not exist for me. Wheres/he stands is according to me just an empty space.
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No, I would learn from it!
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No, I don't get "even"! But, I would confront that person to let them know how disappointed and hurt I was.
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You would be more better than they are. In the end they will pay the price. Not by me or anyone else, but by a greater power...
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Regretfully, yes.
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I got nothing to work with. So its impossible for me to get even.
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No, I believe in karma.
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Probably.
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No. Revenge isn't my style. I know their karma will kick their ass for their bad behavior so I let it go.
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If forcing a wolf out of sheeps clothing is getting even, I do it, because the world deserves to know the truth.
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Years ago i might of done ,now i wouldnt waste my energy.
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Would love to but there is this thing caall"karma" that will take care of every thing.
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no, while I admit, it can be tempting, the Lord God Almighty has taught me that vengence is His.
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I would, and I have, many times.
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