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  • It is possible that u have been curious to this sometime in your past before but for some reason or another you decided it was wrong or you just didn't think you were "that guy". You should probably explore this openly and if you find that you're not then at least you can't say "what if?".
  • You don’t turn gay hon. You are, or you are not. If you are having feelings for men and find them attractive, then yes, you’re gay. There’s nothing wrong with feeling or being that way and there are lots of support communities for men and women going through what you’re going through right now. The important thing is that you learn to accept yourself for who and what you are and that you not feel at all pressured to try to change because that will only make you unhappy in the end.
  • sounds like you are gay.
  • No, since no one "turns" gay. Perhaps you are discovering parts of your inborn orientation that you were not aware of previously.
  • No one can change their sexual orientation. My guess is that you are only now discovering the truth about yourself...something you may have been repressing or denying for a while. I would guess that if you are not gay, you are at least bisexual. There is nothing at all wrong with that. The important thing is to be honest and accepting of yourself.

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