Maybe you should jump in bed with the two of them at the same time, that ought to quench the drama for a while

Sounds like you all are immature, some are more, some are less.

Normally I would say that it's none of your ex wife's business but it sounds like she's concerned about your kids. I'd just take a long, hard and realistic look at whether this woman you're dating is truly fit to be a potential step mother to your children. Their best interest should be paramount.

Why dont you drop your gf off at school, and try dating a woman : )

This is the EX wife... we were together for 10 years, and the current girlfriend texts and calls me everyday talking about their relationship and what they are doing... she starts random fights and even on Christmas said that he didnt want to come over to see his childen ages 2 and 5 open their Christmas presents. She never even passed the message. I told him ive had enough of having to go through her to communicate with him. I even explained that she is thinking that she is more important than his children, and he has been living with her for 6 months and only picked up his kids late friday and brought them back early Sunday. How is it right for her to place herself in front of two children and start fights with me because she is selfish, she even accuses him of only coming here to have sexual relations with me. Basically if he continues seeing her, I have to continue hearing all of this, and most importantly, our children do. By the way, she had one of her friends call me from a blocked number and curse at me and they didnt even know me, or the situation... isnt this a little childish? Even her family members say she has the mind set of a 12 year old. I could keep going, but theres not enough time in the day to finish...

Wow, frankly, I cannot understand what you see in this 19 years old child and the ex wife has no room to complain unless she's 100% free of fault but however I do see where she's coming from on this and she's right about your gf. And the scary part is having your children see grown-ups arguing and all the dramas going on in front of them. I don't claim to be an expert on parenting but your job is to provide a safe and healthy environment for your children and your girlfriend hasn't make the effort to get to know your children personally, all she is doing is tearing the family apart. You really need to ask yourself what it is that you want?