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by saucycoastal on January 13th, 2007

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My BF likes to look and get off from porn which is totally fine but he always does it in the morning, when I'm in the other room "sleeping" (even though I know what he's doing)...why doesn't he just wake me up and do it there?

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  • by Sketchy Mess Jeoffory on January 13th, 2007

    Sketchy Mess Jeoffory

    He might think you generally disapprove of the porn use and therefor be trying not to do it with you around.
    Also, (and please don't take offense to this) many guys use porn because the type of porn they prefer is a fantasy that their partner is unable or unwilling to fulfill. For example, maybe you have blond hair and he has a small thing for red heads. By masturbating to porn he can fulfill his need for this fantasy without being unfaithful to you.
    If it bothers you then you might try expressing interest to him. Either mention that you would like to watch the porn with him or be more proactive and get some porn of your own to surprise him. In either case, make sure that you don't give off a negative vibe about the porn. (This is if you honestly DON'T mind the porn only.)
    If the porn does make you uncomfortable a bit, then I would let him continue to do it on his own. As long as you have a happy sex life outside the porn it may just be a non-destructive way for him to express his sexual fantasies.

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  • by Dark Angel on November 8th, 2007

    Dark Angel

    It very well good be because he has had past relatioship where his ex got ill with him because he did wake her up to have sex..Me personaly..I have told my husband IDC what time it is,How little sleep I have had..If you want it wake me up... We have been together for three years and I have not once told him no not tonight.
    My ex boyfriend use to look at porn while I was in bed,at first I hounded him about it,and it just pushed him away,then I realized that he would tell me when he was ready..So I backed off,let him do his thing...and when he was ready he told me it was because I was the first women that he has been with that was willing be woken up by sex.
    If you havn't ask him about it,I would do it atleast once..If hes not ready to tell you,then let it be until he is ready...He will tell you I promise..
    You hound him about it,it will only cause more problems and push him away.

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  • by saucycoastal on January 15th, 2007

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    Well he used to do it and then would delete his Internet cookies, history, everything and finally I knew what was up and began searching myself through the computer files and found the websites so I told him how I felt and said that I don't mind him doing that, but it bothered me that he was always deleting his history, etc.

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  • by BludRayne on December 11th, 2009

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    Just leave him alone, no guy wants to be discovered or bothered during a solo jerk

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