I am 5,75, 162 pounds. I am quite muscular with cool abs. My female friends say im really attractive but lately there is a problem i am not good with picking up ladies im shy to the bone why?I used to be skinny but i still could manage to date many girls
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It is quite possible that you are not 'Ready' to 'Pick 'up' ladies. What you need to do is start friendships and then work up to picking up... little steps. (although, being a female I really dislike the idea of picking up - But that is just me). That said, I think perhaps you lack some self confidence. What do you see when you look in the mirror? Answer this to yourself (and honestly) if it is negative, look again and keep looking. Find something good and repeat it to yourself until you belive it. That is the start of self confidence. Remember to look closely, not just the outer shell. Age will fade that. Look inside, there is always something there that shines for you as a person. Nuture that and it will show on the outside. Good luck.
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Girls aren't always into muscle. Girls like skinny guys too. It says in your profile you have 2 girlfriends already, what's the problem then?
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I'd say you are spending too much time thinking about yourself and your cool abs. I know the media wants you to think that all girls think about is your appearance and your smell. Truthfully, your character and your personality are much more important. If you spend too much time on your abs and thinking about your abs, what do you have to talk about but your abs? Be a whole person, not just a set of cool abs.
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my boyfriends a skinny guy, and i think what she meant was skinny/muscular. because girls do like muscular guys, but we don't like them to be disgustingly ripped. that's gross. if you're shy try getting some of your female friends to set you up on a blind date. fun fun, and interesting. there's nothing wrong with skinny guys, i'm quite partial to them actually. my boyfriend's a babe and he's skinny, so not all guys have to be body builders.
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