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  • So you "don't feel a connection" between the two of you. Kindly explain to me what that means, exactly.
  • very interesting... only the best of friends have relationships that work out... i guess explain just that// she may not be cool with it... if not, there is not too much u can to do change it.
  • Ask her. For a better understanding watch "When Harry met Sally" first. Even if you don't learn anything it is a great flick.
  • It's impossible. Not worth your time. Is she hot?
  • From a safe distance.
  • Just be honest, talk with her......be open. Sometimes not the easiest to do, but its the best. Tell her what you just said on here:)
  • it's very difficult, and it's only worked for me once
  • If she feels the same way about you as you do about her and doesn't have any feelings for you, then all you have to do is tell her just that, you want to be friends. If you didn't end the relationship on good terms, and she wanted to be with you, the best thing would be to just let her go and let her move on. She needs to be ok with you dating other girls, and if she still has feelings for you she will be hurt by that. And also, you have to keep in mind, girls don't like to date guys that are friends with their exes, unless you guys were friends before you hooked up, it didn't work out and then decided to be friedns again. I personally think being friedns with an ex is a bad idea.
  • Yeah, that situation really is hard. I've been in it a few times, actually. A girl that I dated about 3 years ago is still a great friend of mine to this day. We like each other, but we just weren't really compatible as a couple. We didn't really feel a connection, just like you and your ex. After we first broke up, we didn't talk for about 3 weeks, and then I called her to see how she was doing and told her that I missed talking to her, and ever since we have been friends. I think this may work for you, because it sounds like she liked you as a person, and you liked her as a person, the relationship thing just didn't work out. Good luck.

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