by 1Simmy on January 12th, 2007

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The best way to get rid of disappointment?

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  • by tigueron on January 12th, 2007

    tigueron

    the best way? well define best :D, what I'm trying to say is that disappointment chances raise as expectation so it looks like the best way to avoid disappointment is to lower your expectations but I'd rather say to better validate your expectations.

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  • by DjJavy on January 12th, 2007

    DjJavy

    make up for it with success?

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  • by ugg on July 25th, 2008

    ugg

    Expect the worst and hope for best.

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  • by Zookeeper on January 12th, 2007

    Zookeeper

    Disappointment is a kind of grief. It is the loss of what was hoped for. Grief has a predictable pattern first identified by Kubler-Ross: Denial (finding it hard to believe that the loss has occurred), Bargaining (scrambling to fix the loss), Anger (realizing the loss has occurred and resenting how this has happened), Sorrow (hurting about the absence of what was once part of your world) and finally Acceptance (moving on despite a tender place where the hope used to be.) It is natural to want to take shortcuts with each of these stages, but ignoring them leads to sometimes regrettable substitutes for our lost hopes...the classic example being "rebound relationships".

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  • by VOD on January 12th, 2007

    VOD

    Have no concrete expectations. OR just train yourself that what comes,comes and you will do your best with that.

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  • by Vampyre Bat on July 25th, 2008

    Vampyre Bat

    Stop living.

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  • by thinkin on January 12th, 2007

    thinkin

    Just learn from it try not to do it again and try to do something positive. Positives always out weigh negitives

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  • by 123 on June 24th, 2007

    123

    To live for yourself....don't worry about how your actions will affect the next person ....do what makes you happy..Life is to short to be disappointed..It's ok to feel hurt..but after the crying , drinking, and wondering why you have to pick yourself up and find another solution to your problem. Somtimes there is no doors that will be waiting already opened for you, so you might have to pick a lock or two ...or better yet ..throw a brick through it...that usually works

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  • by lippy1 on July 25th, 2008

    lippy1

    Zookeeper is spot on..it's a process that we have to go through as emotional beings. Don't supress it. Vent it, privately but loudly if neccessary, then move on. All easier said than done of course.
    This article might help...

    http://ezinearticles.com/?Six-Powerful-Steps-to-Help-You-Cope-With-Disappointment&id=1030016

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  • by miro on November 19th, 2010

    miro

    hi,,ma name is mohamed,,an am..going to tell u the way,,of getting rid of disappointment,first,,*disappointment,,comes,,as a result ,of death of a close member to u ...which makes him to feel as the world has ended,,,and in this case,,i cant ...say any thing exept,,come close to god,,he would only protect u ,,and creates,a new life to u ,,,for surviving agan,,second*living a lone,,,and thats the point which makes lot of people mad,am gonna,,,clear..dear frends,,the person,,can never,,live alone,,he shuld atleast have one frend,,which wuld take all,the stress out of,,u,,,,and taker care ,,,u wuld get rid of dissapointment!!!!

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