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First stop saying your sorry , you taught her how to treat you and now she's got you where she wants you , not a good idea - She is showing NO respect for you , so you need to let her go , and then I bet she'll come running back , just don't let her get to you like that . Remember you deserve better
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what u should try to do it. ignore her. she gets upset ignore her and dont say u sorry unless u did somethign wrong. she has u wrapped around her finger, turn the tables. if she expects u too be somewhere dont go, she expects you to react a certain way react opposite to what she is used to. if she gets pissed off do the opposite to what she expects....notice the operative word of OPPOSITE. u can do it i believe in u man
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thanks alot for the advice guys. ye helped alot. lets just hope i can get the balls to follow through.. thanks again.
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If I am reading this right, you stated you love her and she does not love you. If she is rolling her eyes at you, this is a very bad sign. If she does not love you, she probably wants you to let her go. That is the best thing you can do if you really love her. If you really loved her "real" love you would let her go. If she comes back, you know you were wrong about her not loving you. If she does not come back, you know you were correct and both of you would be better off. You cannot make someone love you, they either do or they don't. You say she treats you like shit, well you are allowing her to treat you like shit by staying in the relationship. Her body language is telling you more than anything verbal that comes out of her mouth. Verbal communication only accounts for 10% of total communication. About 90% of communication is given through body language, facial gestures, etc. Few people have the gumption to verbally say what is truly on their minds. If she does not love you, however, does not make her a bad person. It simply means that you and her are not compatible. And quit apologizing! You have nothing to apologize for. Just let it be, it is what it is and now you must deal with it. Take a rational, realistic view of the situation. Neither of you are bad people, you are just not with the right person. You may think in your mind that she is right, but you certainly do sound very happy to me. You are kissing her butt. A man will step back and let her decide what she wants. If she wants you, she will come after you. The more you push, the more less interested she will be. The person who tries the most in a relationship, has the least control of what goes on in the relationship. If the feelings not mutual, it will not work.
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Most women really want a guy who knows how to "Man-Up" I wouldn't even let my husband drive a minivan even though we have four children. We have a Yukon XL Denali for family trips. There are just times you have got to be a man, now is the time. Whether Black or White we all want our men to have a little "Roughneck" about him.
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