Yeah: don't let anger turn into violence.

well what does the kid exactly do?

You only win if you walk away. It is very frustrating for a person to try to start a fight and to realise that the adversary is mentally stronger , You can prove this by just saying 'I will not play your game', and walk away

Don’t get to worked up about this, this kid most probably know he is succeeding in getting you worked up and that is what he want. Don’t show him he has got an effect on you. Keep in mind your age, you might get into a fight and things could get out of hand and what started out as a simple teasing could end up into something serious. You might smack him and he will do something bad to you for revenge, remember, we live in a sick world, it is not the old days where you could beat the crap out of him and it is over, people get obsessive and will not rest until they get even. a nice way will be to talk to him and make him understand that he is actually childish and he is not going to get attention by acting this way, keep the beating until nothing else seems to work but when you do it make sure the two of you are not alone, you never knows what kind of truth will get out, people do funny things. Let me know what the situation is, you can email me at oosthuizen.werner@gmail.com. How old are you and are you male or female. Remember, we all went to school and we all had an experience similar to this, I simply slapped the shit out them but that was ages ago, the law just isn’t the same anymore, so think before you act.

ok, I guess you are a boy, well, a fighting tip that always helped is to punch him on the nose so that it will cause his eyes to water, he will not be able to see you to good, what ever you do stay away from his head, I don’t like saying this but I had to do this my-self and by the way of things I can see you are trying to get good help in this regard. don’t be alone, have a witness so that you can protect your self, slap him around a bit and make him understand clearly that you have had it, let him apologize and go and tell your parents what you have done, but my last advice is, try to avoid this, have you spoken to your parents about this, what is it exactly that he knows about you that he uses against you? Rather be honest with us so that we can help you.

Well, if you already made up your mind smack him straight on the nose so that will either make his eyes water or his nose bleed, once this happens you will be in control and he will not be able to defend him self to good, this is not the way to go but you asked for advice, you can keep on slapping him until he ask you to stop. Don’t let him get on the floor and start kicking him, cowards doe this, unless he is twice your size, but if he is teasing you hi is asking you and he is challenging your manly skills because he thinks less of you!!!!

Eyes, knuckles to eyes and temples.

well.. I'm not much of a fighter and I suggest you try talking to him first. BUT. get him alone and from behind. There's nothing better than surprise. If you don't feel too confident in your fighting skills, get him really stoned and it should be a whole lot easier.

What is he doing? Is he picking on you? Calling you names? What?

Why don't you just ignore it. I was in the same situation once, if you both are mature enough, he'll stop. If he's acting like a child, it'll probably bother him to know you aren't being bothered by him.