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  • It depends.. you didn't provide enough info - are you a couple or was it a casual date? If you havn't been dating long it's normal that she may be dating some other guys.. just give it some time to see if it develops further. If she's an attractive person you can always expect some competition! When I'm single, just cos I let a guy buy me a coffee doesn't mean I won't meet another nice guy the next day and meet him for a drink. But if you are in a relationship together, it's best you confront her about it and try to work out whether she is as committed as you are - just communicate! She may not be looking to get serious with you right now so you need to work out where you both stand. I have to wonder why you were going through her phone..that sounds a little possessive, creepy and distrusting to me...unless you had her phone for some reason and just stumbled on the msg.
  • Its a business matter..or she's a whore!
  • Well it all depends on what kind of meeting. Ask her about it. maybe she will take you along if its a friendly meeting. If its business then thats just the way it goes. Men and women work together.
  • Sounds like you're not doing a very good job of keeping her happy?
  • next time don't make assumptions about what the relationship is. You'll have to discuss it and ask her if she wants to make a monogamous commitment. If I had just started dating a guy it wouldn't make him my boyfriend and I would assume he was still seeing other girls. Until we'd discussed it. Maybe you have some cultural differences? I'm talking about western culture so I don't know whether that's you original one or not. Just don't make assumptions that's all I'm saying. But if she told you she was in love I'd expect that means she's not seeing anyone else. So she might have been a bit decietful.
  • I wouldn't think too hard about it... Especially if it was the first time you met face to face. If you guys really did hit it off, she'll probably cancel on the other dude.
  • I think she has a noisy B/F who found what he deserved. WHY are you checking on her? Ask her, I bet she'll tell you what she thinks!

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