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  • lets be realistic. She's unlikely to top herself, (1) the boyfriend's back (albeit not of his own free will) and she said crisis over, no suicide today. (2) if she was going to do it, she'd be dead now, boyfriend or not or for some other reason. She probably has one problem after another, all crisis problems, real live stop-the-world stuff. You can either carry on listening and letting her come to you if that's what you want to do or you can decide it's driving you wild and put an end to it by ceasing contact or if you really have had enough something along the lines of "so you told him you were going to end it all and he beleived it? Wow, if it works so well with you forcing him to stay, imagine how great it would be if he stayed because he loved you!" That should do it.
  • You need to be supportive of her,as we all take time to mature,some of us longer than others. But do give her good common sense feed-back to help her move on into maturity When we love people we hang in there for them even when the going gets tough,and a true friend will be there for you in thick and thin of things. You are the kind of fried that I would want in my life,And "Yes" People do kill themselves over the death of a family member, but also over a failed relationship. And failed relationships can, and do,often triggers a suicide. Worked in Mental-Health for over 28,years, so I know what I am talking about. Just be the kind and loving person that you are,and in time she'll learn to stand on her own emotional feet.

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