• It depends, is she like this with other friends? Its probably best first to see if she is like this with everyone, if that is the case I don't see how asking her if there's a problem will help, it might just make her think your too clingy. Me and a friend have been talking a lot recently about our friend because whenever she had a problem she would be on the phone pouring out her problems and yet whenever we need some of her time she either doesn't reply or we don't hear off her until she's got another problem. So we have started ignoring her now like reverse psychology. It has worked because she is more interested in how we are doing as she's now the one that doesn't want to be shut out.
  • The best thing to do is go and talk to her, being stubborn because of pride will kill the friendship, ask her in a nice way " have I done something to upset you", or "what are you mad about", even if she still refuses to talk to you, you at least have opened a door for communication, and you will know that at least you tried. Good luck.
  • Forgive your friend and try to reconcile for your own sake if nothing else. Even if the friendship is gone beyond repair, it you reconcile or make a good attempt to reconcile, you can walk away with a clear heart. This is from Matthew chapter 5:21"You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not murder,[a] and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.' 22But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother[b]will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, 'Raca,[c]' is answerable to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23"Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift. Raca was an insulting word, I believe it roughly meant fool.
  • if my bestfriend ignored me i would want to know why. i would try to talk with her to find out what's wrong. i love my bestfriend,i'm closer to her than my family and if she didn't want me around anymore i would die.
  • maybe you should talk to her about it

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